well you are one of the lucky ones then Gustav. I totally agree with Anna and most buyers would NOT take that risk and most sellers wont either who are serious about their business.
I would never fulfil an order using PayPal. It doesnt matter how discreet you are they will find you!
I have no idea where you are located but in the UK it is very easy to do a bank payment directly from one back to another, which is how most of us in Europe are doing it.
If you are in the USA then I can understand the payment problem but there are always gift certificates and other ways.
I just hope you don’t get a bad experience and that whoever you buy from is prepared to risk her account for you.
Cinds x
p.s. Once they ban a PayPal account that person will not be able to open a new one, ever! They keep ALL your information on file – believe me, its a bitch, they did it to me after they lied and set me up.