True panty lover? Or maybe not

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  • #12055
    bojack
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    Well I’ve recently started getting panties, in total I’ve bought 5 pair online and I’m beginning to wonder if this is really the fetish for me. I was always the generous buyer sometimes paying over $100 for just a pair worn for 1 day or something similar. When I see a really hot girl that turns me on my normal reaction has always been “wow I wish I had her panties” or “I wish she were sitting on my face”, perhaps it’s the submissive side of me that wants them. I always get so excited after I make my panty order and can’t wait for the new pair to arrive in the mail. After getting the panties and taking my first sniff it’s always a different story because of the simple fact that they all gross me out. Sure I can get off with the panties and when I’m about halfway into my self pleasure I get used to the scent and enjoy it but there’s always that initial gross out factor. When I’m all finished masturbating I feel grossed out and dirty. I don’t get aroused by licking or biting the panties or by wrapping them around myself to masturbate into, just the scent. I feel this way after each pair, the only reason I continue to buy is because I try different types of women hoping one of them has a more pleasant scent and then there’s the excitement and anticipation of getting a new pair but it always ends with a pretty big disappointment so maybe this isn’t for me anymore.

    #12056
    FetishKitten
    Member

    Wow, bojack, thanks for writing this…Its always interesting to hear why some people are into panties or pantie buying and also if they have something that just isnt quite right.

    Everyone buys for different reasons.  Some people I sell to do not like the taste or the smell as well, and simply buy them because they either like me, like my photos, or want to own something intimate that has been around me and or buy something from a girl they find pretty.

    You shouldnt feel dirty, though telling you that wont automatically stop you feeling it.
    I do think a part of it may well be your submissive side, though maybe if that is the case being told what to do with someones underwear once you recieve it may help.  As when they get to you the girls involvement is pretty much at an end with some panty sales.  If you need that extra interaction to get something more from what you are buying then you need to find the girl that really does it for you, and the extra bits you need to enjoy it that much more.  Or maybe find something else to buy.

    Lots of sellers sell more than just underwear.  Photo sets, toys, all forms of lingerie, homemade food and letters, videos, pillowcases that have been slept on…the list is endless.

    I really hope you find just what you are looking for, as it can be frustrating being so close and yet so far, especially if you are not entirely sure what it is that you are after.

    Email me if you want to chat more, or talk to all of us here, we are a friendly bunch and i’m sure everyone will be only to glad to help.
    :kiss:

    Xxx FetishKitten xxX

    #12059
    FetishKitten
    Member

    I’ve actually also got people who only like me to tell them what to buy and what to do with it… They dont LIKE panties and that to them is their turn on, being made to do something they normally wouldnt like to do.

    #12060
    Anna
    Member

    I think this is the fetish for you bojack, but I do think you just haven’t found the right girl yet.

    Just becase you are a bloke doesn’t mean you fany every single woman out there does it? So why would their smells work for you too? We all smell different. Not every smell is going to be right for you I would have thought. You may get the right seller whose scent makes you go  jo instead of  :buck2: or it may just be that you need to know the seller more?  Some guys don’t like ‘one night stands’ they like to know the girl so that when they do ‘give her one’ it feels better.

    Perhaps some of the guys could give their opinion to help our friend out??

    #12061
    bojack
    Member

    [quote author=FetishKitten link=topic=1780.msg11344#msg11344 date=1169145770]
    I’ve actually also got people who only like me to tell them what to buy and what to do with it… They dont LIKE panties and that to them is their turn on, being made to do something they normally wouldnt like to do.

    Being told to do things I normally wouldn’t want to would not be that much of a turn on. I do have a slight submissive side but I also have a strong dominant side which is enough to keep me from being completely dominated by a woman. I guess when it all comes down to it I had the wrong idea about the whole panty buying thing. I was expecting pleasant smells but none of them were and I should have known that from the beginning but I ignored it because there was a great deal of excitement involved in just getting the panties, so maybe that was all that kept me going from one person to the next. In the end it doesn’t do that much for me, I’ve already bagged up all the panties for the trash can.

    #12063
    bojack
    Member

    [quote author=Anna link=topic=1780.msg11345#msg11345 date=1169147188]
    I think this is the fetish for you bojack, but I do think you just haven’t found the right girl yet.

    Just becase you are a bloke doesn’t mean you fany every single woman out there does it? So why would their smells work for you too? We all smell different. Not every smell is going to be right for you I would have thought. You may get the right seller whose scent makes you go  jo instead of  :buck2: or it may just be that you need to know the seller more?  Some guys don’t like ‘one night stands’ they like to know the girl so that when they do ‘give her one’ it feels better.

    Well I got a pair of panties from one of my girlfriends in the past. I had her cum into them, the scent was very strong, the strongest out of any I bought online. It literally kicked me in the face but I didn’t like it, I’ve tried other women looking for a good scent but after the 5th one I don’t think its going to happen.

    I appreciate all these responses and attempt at help because this isn’t the type of thing I can openly talk about with other people. 
    🙂

    #12064

    Can I just add here that used panties dont really smell anything like fresh pussy juice, they smell of pussy sure, but just not the same.  They have the muskiness initially but after a while it does change no matter how good you bag them up.  Also, not only do us girls have different scents we all have different scents depending on the time of the month .. us women are very complicated lol 🙂

    Shame to hear that you don’t enjoy them anymore though – I wonder if your dustman will be happy  :laugh:

    #12065
    FetishKitten
    Member

    Its obvious that something about girls panties drew you to buying them and getting your girlfriend to cum in them for you, i do still think its a question of you finding out what really does it for you.  If not the smell, or the taste then something
    else.
    Welcome to the forums anyway, and we’ll all help if its wanted 🙂

    #12067
    Tabitha
    Member

    [quote author=bojack66 link=topic=1780.msg11346#msg11346 date=1169148090]
    I was expecting pleasant smells but none of them were and I should have known that from the beginning

    Bojack you may already know this but psychologically speaking a lot of the potency of scent is about association , yes there is the effect of pheromones but they would have mostly worn off by the time you get the  panties and would only be attractive if you are genetically compatable
    with the seller. It sounds like you’re getting more excited by the act  of purchasing than the panties.
    It sounds like cindy and fetish are right and you need to find a sympathetic ear to talk things through with.
    Also it sounds like you’re spending an awful lot of money to then just throw panties away. Try and think of sexual experiences that went right and what did you find sexy about them … maybe it will give you a clue? and getting to know your sellers as well
    Hope that helped and wasn’t too sciency me and dr ruth hehehe :idiot2:

    #12069
    Anna
    Member

    Perhaps it is just panties rather than used panties? Perhaps it is knowing that panties are the packaging to a pussy? You could always just buy new panties from the shop and try wanking with those? If you don’t like the smells then don’t spend all that money on what we sell. Spend some time browsing through your shops and selecting some silky pretties for your girlfriend or ‘girlfriend’ (as in willy 😉 )

    #15650
    hhd
    Member

    Perhaps its the duration of the worn panty, a less worn panty with a fainter scent might be what you’re looking for. Instead of 24 hours maybe one worn for less time would be more suitable.

    Or perhaps its the visual of the pantie and knowing in your mind where they have come from, I suppose you could wash them and keep them as a textural and visual aid.

    #15663
    jazzy
    Member

    Dear Bojack, Why not look at all the galleries here on Panty Hog and when you find a hot girl that really turns you on ask her if she would wear the panties for a few hours just and then you can alter the wearing time if they are too strong or not strong enough.There are plenty lovely ladies here so take your time and then when you see The One for you ask her nicely and i’m sure she will do all she can to help.
    When you find her you won’t regret it.
    Best of luck. 😉

    Jazzy    🙂

    #15778
    tommyboy40
    Member

    :laugh: Bojack, I feel the same except I don’t have the dirty feeling afterward.

    I have enjoyed my wifes and my wifes cousin and sisters panties.

    I want my wife to sell her essence , but she won’t do it for me so I have been giving her stuff away…..

    keep tryin and don;t spend so much…

    a friend

    #15784
    hotxxxblonde
    Member

    You sound a lot like a buyer of mine who became a good friend.  He is very turned on by the thought of my panties and is very generous with his purchases.  For him though, it is more of the excitement of something being so close to me, the thought of what it would be like to take them off before having sex with me…  The smell does not do anything for them initially.  He does enjoy the scent after some time has passed and they are not so strong.

    He realized that the idea of used panties was gross to him for everyone else but me.  I think it has a lot to do with who you order them from.  I don’t know if this sounds at all like your situation. 

    I think you might have some better luck ordering from a girl who understands you need a lighter wear, perhaps the hint of a woman’s pussy not a big creamy, strong, mess.  Us panty girls generally try to err on the side of more scent rather than less but I know I have buyers who just want a couple hours wear.  smt

    #19604
    mutandina
    Member

    Wow oddly enough I have an almost identical situation! When I smelled my first pair of panties they were from a friends sister.  When I sniffed them I was totally grossed out and could not forget that smell for about an hour.  Somehow along the way I got used to it and was really turned on by that scent.  A few years later I was able to get another pair with a lighter smell and was instantly turned on! The sad thing about this pair was that whenever I came, I would always feel very guilty and nasty for stealing someones panties.  I ended up throwing this pair out and have regretted it ever since.

    Finally after about another year I decided to purchase a pair online. I too was VERY excited just ordering and looking at the pics of her in panties! When they finally did arrive, I opened up the sealed bag and took a sniff. They were very strongly scented and once again I was grossed out.  Later that day I decided to look at some porn and I got very arroused seeing pics of women in panties.  Deciding to give it another go, I took the panties back out of the bag and took a whiff.  Needless to say it was MUCH better and I came like crazy. For me I think I have to be “in the mood” to be able to enjoy a strongly scented pair of panties. Initially, I also had that nasty feeling after I was done but I’ve come to accept that I just flat out love panties and there’s nothing I can do to change this. I hope this was helpful to you!

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