Whether they are a sub or a panty buyer doesn’t really matter you know, in fact if he is a sub it’s worse! They are both buyers of your time and services and should respect the fact that you are providing a service that costs money. Post his details in Pillow Talk just as Cindy says.
Don’t give away anything. These idiots have probably spent years honing their skills at extracting freebies from new sellers and mistresses.
‘Could you tell me what you may command me to do?‘ ‘Could you prove who you are‘
‘I haven’t been paid yet‘
‘My new credit card hasn’t been activated yet‘
‘What would you do if……‘
They will flatter you and tell you that the sun shines out of your arse if they think they can get some free time and jollies out of you.
It’s a shame to say this but treat everyone with caution as they might be trying to rip you off. When you get your regular good buyers then, and only then, will you see the difference between the gents and the asshats.