In between ordering and receiving?

Personally i try my best to wear within a week, but have to be honest and say that sometimes it can be the full week or even just over if i have been really busy…:) …But of course if your lucky then it might only be a couple of days. The key is what i think your after (as well as some gorgeous panties) is Good communication…:woohoo: …

Personaly i will chat and swap emails as much as a guy wants and will always answer emails as soon as i have the computer back on…..I dont wait days to reply…..After all i’m a girl and we luv to talk…:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

I agree with Ruby.

Once I receive payment, I let the customer know when I plan on wearing their item.
I then will contact them after I have posted it, to send them their complimentary photos and let them know it’s been posted.

Of course if there is a delay (like there has been this week with orders) I try to keep them in the loop, although I feel so embarrassed and guilty when I can’t control my period and it goes on for longer than planned.

Communication is key, and I hate not knowing about orders, so thats why I like to let my buyers know whats going on.

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not that i can talk from experience YET!!!! but i think it is a nice idea to talk but hey i am a chatty person anyway! least that way you both know where you stand and hopefully everyone will get what they want without any misunderstandings!

sam xx

Ponygirl wrote:

but often there just aren’t enough hours in the day when you have a full time job and a life to fit in too! I get 20-50 emails a day to reply to, which takes a lot of time…Some buyers seem to require daily email contact though, which sadly I can’t provide. 🙁

It’s just about finding the right balance I reckon.

You’re right Ponygirl. You have to consider what your panty incomings are compared to the time spent dealing with emails etc. If you worked out the hourly rate, you’d probably cry.

I took the decision when I first started selling to be polite but concise. Anyone who wanted constant reassure was put down as a timewaster. This was my method and my decision. I am PT verified, I spend a lot of time on PHog and I spent time updating my site and my blog, yet some ‘buyers’ still wanted reassurance. I came to the quick conclusion that they had no intention of buying, they were angling for freebie pics or just simply wanted to feel wanted or needed by me, or just anyone. A lot of the shine came off selling when I realised that some ‘buyers’ were simply waving the promise of a bit of cash for me to dance to their tune.

Yep, it’s a matter of getting the balance right, and it’s not so easy to do.

Sorry you have had to deal with that Sam.

Grrrr, it really annoys me when guys try to take advantage of new girls like that. When I very first started I had loads of idiots taking the p*ss, but I just sent them on their merry way and don’t get as much hassle anymore, although I would still say that about a quarter of everyone that contacts me has no intention of ever buying. You soon get to know the difference between a genuine enquiry and a timewaster. Spend your time on the nice, genuine guys, and not on someone making unreasonable demands like that, or you will seriously end up sat at your computer 24/7, pulling your hair out in frustration!! :S

yep, it is exactly that Ponygirl. The asshats take complete advantage of the keen eager to please newbie seller. I would hate to be a newbie seller again.

You do get to know the difference eventually but unfortunately you only learn by bitter experience. Obviously it goes without saying that when you do get a decent buyer you make sure you look after him. It’s the decent genuine buyers that make it all worthwhile because they respect you, and they enjoy the fetish with you…rather than seeing you as some kind of freebie provider put on the earth to supply them with what they want, how and what they want, with no thought, consideration…or payment!

Grrrrr :angry: It really riles me that the poor newbies are having to deal with this crap at all.