Guys who shop around.

That’s a good question Jazzy.

I’d like to know too because it still amazes me how many times guys order from new inexperienced, quite frankly dodgy looking, sellers who don’t post, don’t contribute and don’t get verified and don’t order from the sellers who do bother…

Is it ‘fresh meat syndrome’?

So do guys think with their dicks, their head or their wallets?

I’m glad the guys shop around..if they didn’t, I’d never have any customers!

Of course I have many regulars, but it is always fun to send to someone new and see if they become a “regular.”

I guess I view it like, well…there are so many foxy ladies in the world, you can’t help but be attracted to more than one, be it physically and/or on a personality level. :kiss:

That’s a good question Jazzy and i`m glad that you have found your idea seller after trying other`s out. Yes Cindy is perfect seller.

But to answer your question as to why buyers shop around…….

Do you when buying something for yourself or your home, do you just look and pick the 1st item that fits the bill or do you shop around and try and look at as many of different choices that there are? So the same can be applied to buying used panties.

How is a buyer suppose to know what he like`s or dosen`t like`s unless he shops around?

Feedback or being PVT dose help but there is nothing better that your own experience is there?

I might add that i have found more than a few that are my perfect seller and those one`s know that i will always come back to them no matter how many other`s i buy from and sample.

Oh good, I can blather on about this subject for hours.

Jazzy — first of all, as I’m sure you know, Cindy doesn’t accept new panty friends any more. You lucky guy, you! 🙂

Now, having said that, I wouldn’t order from Cindy even if she was still available. Not because I don’t think that she’s friendly, articulate, and beautiful — she is all of that — but because she lives in the wrong place. She’s in Europe, and I’m in America — California, to be more precise.

So many of you lovely panty sellers are located in Canada, the U.K., Europe, or Australia. Is it reasonable to expect that a fragrant treasure sent from so far away would smell anywhere near as good as it was when it was removed? The smell does fade, and as far as I’ve determined, it can’t be helped.

Truly, the best panties I have smelled have still been the ones I have found on my own — in hampers, laundry baskets, and overnight bags. They haven’t spent a single day in the postal system. I find the smell to be more intense and true-to-life, like I’m between the legs of a woman who is offering me the privilege of tonguing her clit. That’s what I’m looking for.

Aside from the loss in intensity, who can predict when a package will arrive, when it’s coming from 10,000 miles away and through international customs? Maybe that’s not important to some buyers, but it’s important to me. A single man can receive a package at home and never worry about who might know. A total panty fiend might order once or twice a month, and so would get his money’s worth from a Post Office box, if he needed to keep his panty fetish a secret.

I am neither single, nor a frequent panty buyer. I am married, and I order about three times a year. I receive my panties at home. It is critical that I receive packages on a weekday, when I’m sure that I can get to the mailbox before my wife. So I limit myself to ladies in the United States, and I prefer those who are located west of the Rocky Mountains. When I place an order, I always ask them to post on a Saturday or a Monday. I typically receive my gift on a Tuesday — though one package took all the way to Thursday, and had me nervous.

Now, let’s be honest, many panty ladies with potential have not lasted very long. Who knows why they quit? More than one American panty seller has implied on her web pages that she is selling panties because she has unpaid medical bills. Then she closes up shop, sometimes without warning. My country’s health care system is barbaric. :angry:

I AM in fact looking for ONE panty seller, who lives reasonably near to me, who has good email rapport, and who smells right for me. I will stick with her when I find her — assuming that she wants to keep selling. (I would also take the return of my wife’s libido over any panties, but that’s straying a bit from the main topic here.)

I got pretty close with a seller named Jules, whom some of you here will remember as a good friend. I had been disappointed with the 24-hour panties I had ordered from a few other sellers, so I ordered a 48-hour pair from her. WOW, too strong! I had never been overwhelmed before. I told her that I wanted to try again, with regular 24-hour wear. She wrote back and told me that she was done with panties, and was shutting down her web site. I think that I may have been her last buyer.

Will any woman tell me in advance that the smell in her panties will not be as intense as I want it to be? I doubt it. I doubt that she even knows herself. I just have to try, and find out.

Hope that explains things!

jazzy wrote:

It is not only the panties though,if the girl is nice you can build up a great relationship with her and accept her as a true friend.

As I wrote: “good email rapport.” Any of the ladies who have corresponded with me here will tell you that I value words as much as anything else.

I am glad there are a few who take chances on new girls. I am still working on getting my panty selling shop up on my website (Working on getting some new photos) and am not going to be able to get verified right away. This does not mean I am going to rip someone off. I can see why someone would be leary with the fakes and such out there, but if my having been around for three years with my website as a PSO, a Pro Domme, and an adult model isn’t enough proof that I am actually who I say I am. Then I wonder if anyone really cares that I have put so much work into building a good web reputation.

I do think though its the new meat syndrome. It happens all the time with PSO work. The new girls get called by the guys who want someone who will break rules ect because they may not know what is going on. Or the guy is trying to scam a girl becuase they may be inexperienced. Maybe its a price thing. New girls tend to charge less who knows. (This is not to say all the guys do that) I do thank those who take a chance on us new girls. Without that no one else would be able to get a start.

I agree with Glittergirl.
I think the variety of each ladies scent is also an important part of shopping around. Different notes strike different chords and trigger different reactions inside us. Similar to what perfume does. It’s nice to have your signature scent, but every now and then a new fragrance complements a new mood.