I am so embarrassed

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February 24, 2009 at 7:35 pm #25161

Devany
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Ok, well I gotta get this off my chest. I feel stupid and bad about it.

So Iâ€™ve been talking to my ex over facebook and chatting back and forth for about a year or more. I mean we really flirt and we have been getting into very personal conversations and such. Well, I had his email addy, and I thought it might be cute to send a few naughty pics. Boy was I wrong. A few hours after I sent them, I got this message in my inboxâ€¦

â€œcan you please stop sending my fiancee naked pics thanksâ€

Fiancee, where did that come from??
OMGâ€¦ I couldnâ€™t be more embarrassed in my life.

February 24, 2009 at 8:12 pm #25162

summerres
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its his deal he didn’t tell you he was engaged.
my ex and i talk, we even go so far as to heavy flirting.
depending on how vindective you’re feeling, you could find out if you were conversing with her, or if he is in the habbit of letting her check his e-mail my guess is she was snooping.:ohmy: either way… it has a great many possibilities.

bottom line, don’t feel bad because he led you on, remember there is a reason you refer to him as your ex.
:S
l

February 24, 2009 at 9:02 pm #25163

Devany
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summerres wrote:

its his deal he didn’t tell you he was engaged.
my ex and i talk, we even go so far as to heavy flirting.
depending on how vindective you’re feeling, you could find out if you were conversing with her, or if he is in the habbit of letting her check his e-mail my guess is she was snooping.:ohmy: either way… it has a great many possibilities.

bottom line, don’t feel bad because he led you on, remember there is a reason you refer to him as your ex.
:S
l

she was deffintly snooping, and he must have been deleting messages, or she would have had more to say to me than she did… YIKES!! she just happened to get to that one first…
atleast we didnt go out. we’ve been saying we would for months, but i was putting it off…lol

February 24, 2009 at 9:47 pm #25164

jazzy
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As i don’t have a wife or fiancee,wondered if you would like my e-mail address.;)
only kidding,
These things happen,not to worry.:silly:

Jazzy :dry:

February 24, 2009 at 10:07 pm #25167

poppyperfection
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aww hun x bless ya … no need to be embarrassed tho… he should have told ya x

maybe you should send more! haa haa = dig that knife in! lol!!!

February 25, 2009 at 12:04 am #25169

Larasexypanties
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HE’s the one must be embarrassed!!! Not YOU!
Embarrassed for being such a liar! One year chatting,and not a word about this “fiancee”!!
🙁
He is the bad one, not you!
So.. better for you if he’s your EX..

A similar thing has happened to me too, but I was the fiancee, and I received a message from the one he was flirting with….:huh:
(well… it’s a wild world!!)
Baci
Lara

February 25, 2009 at 7:47 pm #25176

summerres
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Speaking of ex’s mine keeps making plans then blowing them off. we havnt seen each other for almost… 4 months when i went to get some of my stuff. i think hes afraid of me, well me in the sense that he knows he screwed up big time. so whats going to happen to little miss snoop?

February 25, 2009 at 7:48 pm #25177

Devany
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thnx guys. I know it wasnâ€™t my fault, but its still bothering me.. and I think Iâ€™m more embarrassed that she saw the pics of me more than anything… lol.. not everyone needs to see me topless.. LOL.. Poor girl, I can only imagine how she is feelingâ€¦ from what he told me they are going to work it out. i know why are you still talking to him, because we were great friends for years before we dated, and hes the person i can talk about anything with. even after we broke up we still talked (he just left things out). but she apparently is ok with us just talking (she said), and prob will be looking at everything to keep him in line…lol. so hopefully it was just a stupid mistake on his part and wont happen again. but yeah, never again, im gunna stick to strictly talking and there is no way we will ever go out for drinks or anything now….lol

but still, Iâ€™m kinda jealous.. Not that Iâ€™m going to pursue it or anything. Just leave it be and Iâ€™ll get over itâ€¦lol

boo to your ex summerres… but its kinda funny hes scared of you… 😛 .. hope you get ur stuff eventually.

February 25, 2009 at 9:10 pm #25179

summerres
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im not terribly worried about my stuff, all i have left there is some recipes and my ps2 *games console everything* both things i can live with out.
:laugh: the fact that they are still there i think is a kind of mild torture, cause he can sit and stew about how many hours we spent playing games together. 😆
bitter? me? Ha, I’m not bitter i simply believe in learning from your mistakes.
If any men are reading this, it is not acceptable to expect your girlfriend to sit home and wait for you when you know you are not going to come over, and then guilt trip her when she does go out with friends. Also it is not acceptable to see your girlfriend every other day for two years then suddenly cut it down to one or two days a week for a few hours before you pass out because you have been spending every night up with your brother playing video games till 2 am then getting a few hours of sleep before work.
One other tiny little thing, if your roommate, or brother in this case calls you during your girlfriends birthday dinner *to which he was invited but decided to not go*and says he has to talk to you, say you will be home soon, and take your girl home before you leave.I repeat DO NOT leave her there and say you will be back in a little bit… * thats not even the straw that broke the camels back.. i went over to talk to him after a date with another guy ended up staying the night with him, and he moved my car so then his brother, wouldn’t know i was there…i thought it was stolen, since he grabbed my keys from my purse and moved it before i got up *
see not bitter. 😉 angry, oh yeah lots of unresolved anger.
After he put me through all that why on earth would i still want to be friends with him? There is no simple answer …

February 26, 2009 at 1:39 pm #25181

Ponygirl
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Eek!! Don’t stay in touch with exes, it’s the only answer! Always ends in trouble in my experience…
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