Curious about panty mistressing!
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July 7, 2005 at 8:08 pm #2712darkhairedkarenMember
Hi panty mistresses!
I’ve been reading slave/sissy sites and stories and was curious to know how you became a panty mistress! Have you always been a dominant female? Or was it something you stumbled across that got you curious? Did your sissies/slaves find you or do you recruit them yourself?
Very interested to hear your own experiences!
Karen 🙂
XOXOJuly 7, 2005 at 8:39 pm #2713Cindy_PantyParadiseMemberOh this is funny …. I have always been a ring leader I guess and a little bossy (but in the nicest possible way) ;-) and they actually approached me via my site. I make them prove to me if they are worthy or not by setting them immediate tasks to do. they either pass or fail.
The ones that pass then go onto another level of proving their worthyness and after that if they succeed then I will accept them into my “care” lol 🙂 … it wasnt something I intended to do though, I must admit, however it is proving to be quite fun 🙂
Love Cindy xxx
July 8, 2005 at 7:27 pm #2735cherieMemberI actually considered myself a submissive up until a couple of years ago, when I had a not-so-great experience with a Dom I met online.? I came out of it thinking “I could do so much better!”? so I started to try my hand; and I VERY soon realized that I had always had a tendency to dominate which I had been struggling against.? I’m bossy (in the nicest possible way? 😉 ),? extremely picky, and – most important IMO – better organized than 99% of guys.? So I am always one step ahead of them, you see?? :cheer:
The funny thing to me is that, even though I was going that route, and even though I had such a thing for lingerie myself, it never occurred to me that I would really get off on playing with crossdressing subs (which is how I define a “sissy”) until one approached me shortly after starting my site.? Which is how I wound up being the PHog “Sissy Mistress” and offering sissy training services.
Now I am looking for a permanent (or at least long-term) sissy to serve me in the flesh.? *grin*? I prefer to do the “recruiting” as then I get to choose what I want
(which, BTW, is a tall, thin, literate fellow with large hands and some variety of uk accent…in case there are any sissies out there who wish to apply, lol!)
I “recruit” from several places for this…alt.com has been good for me, and the local BDSM club.? In-the-flesh is tricky because there has to be a period of getting to know somebody, establishing boundaries and such, before you can get into any real playing and some guys just don’t have a clue about this.
As for my online services,? I’ll take on anyone who can pay me, so long as they don’t seriously piss me off, lol!I put a lot of effort into devising training programs for my boys, making them their own webpages, really getting to know them and what their “buttons” are, and trying to help them develop into happier people, not just ones who’ve wanked off on command a few times.?
The biggest thing that ticks me off is when guys don’t appreciate this.? Many of them seem to think that the sexual thrill I get compensates for my spending hours working with them, and believe me fellas, it does NOT – I can have a better orgasm in five minutes with nothing but my own hand!? What I get out of it really is the thrill of being adored, worshipped – and the best way of proving your adoration, as far as I’m concerned, is to put your money where your mouth is.? 😛
Or come over and mow my lawn, hehehe!? ?:rolleyes:
xox
Lady CherieJuly 8, 2005 at 9:11 pm #2739darkhairedkarenMemberHee hee hee, Cherie!
I got some flak today on Alt.com for being a “tribute Domme” (the word “whore” was bandied about). Earlier, when I paused for a minute to think about it I realized that the tributes would have to be pretty damn big to make this Mistress thing a cash cow! When I consider the things I want to put in my “training kit” it makes me realize just how much time needs to be put into shopping and training assignments, not to mention imagination and emotional energy.Â
Frankly, I think there’s nothing wrong with money exchanging hands between consenting adults who enjoy this lifestyle/role play. At the very least the person paying is getting some entertainment out of it!
I checked out your schoolroom page, Cherie – I admired it for quite some time. The tone is both kind and insidiously seductive. 😉
“Mistress Karen” 🙂
July 9, 2005 at 7:49 pm #2756Cindy_PantyParadiseMemberI would not give my services as a Mistress for free. No way. I tried that at the beginning and ended up spending a fortune on texts and phonecalls, let aside spending hours and hours wracking my brains what to give a demanding slave a new punishment or task .. plus going out shopping for the sissys for make up and “pretties”.
Once they have proved themselves to serve me, I have various monthly deals that my subs, slaves and sissys can choose from and that way we both know where we stand. If they want more texts or anything then they must pay for them.
I totally agree with what Cherie says and it is ALOT of hard work keeping them in line and although it is nice to have control it certainly does not “get me off” either.
Mistress C
July 11, 2005 at 9:24 pm #2792cherieMemberHey Karen, if you don’t mind my asking, who was it that was giving you a hard time on alt.com?? One of the guys or another Mistress?
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Lady CherieJuly 12, 2005 at 6:05 am #2793darkhairedkarenMemberCherie – I was in the Master/Slave chatroom… There were a WHOLE bunch of people in there giving me a hard time, but the only name I remember is Jasamint. (And Althos sticking up for me.) It was actually more the ladies that were giving me a hard time. They didn’t like the way I came off. I think they got offended when I asked a slave who was chatting me up what he did for a living. (I think they thought I was gold-digging or something. I more thought to wound his ego because a lot of people take great pride in their jobs.) Anyway, someone called me a whore and I think Jasamint was the one to ask me how much I charged. Anyways, very unwelcoming.
I’ve been to the Master/Slave chatroom twice since then…Â It’s always a bunch of people having group cybersex so I look for conversation elsewhere.
Perhaps I came on too strong in the beginning (chat and profile). I’ve had so many wankers e-mail me… The good news is that with so many more guys than women I have my choice of dealing with whoever I want.
I’ve been reading http://www.GoddessClub.com a lot. I’m loving the idea of having slaves! It totally matches my personality, LOL. It *should* be all about them pleasing me! So I am exploring being a Lifestyle Domme with people outside of my existing (or past) friends and lovers.
(And thank you for your concern, Cherie! It’s very sweet of you.)
Mistress Karen 🙂
January 26, 2006 at 6:45 am #5961the Legendary MommyMemberi Would Lave to be a Slave As long you call me mommy fkd
February 6, 2006 at 6:02 pm #6068cherieMemberAnd what would you wish to call your Mistress, mommy?
xox
CherieFebruary 7, 2006 at 12:09 am #6070adminKeymasterSorry Cherie, you may never know. Mommy is um, no longer here.
-PK
March 16, 2006 at 12:12 am #6797AnnaMemberOMG, I know this thread is a bit old now but blimey Charlie, I’ve had an email for a sub who wanted to know if I would tell him exactly what to do with my panties. I was intrigued and thought well this is the place to come for some sound advice.
I clicked on the http://www.GoddessClub.com site and blow me if the Leighton painting on the first page isn’t the exact painting I have here in my office!! (Well, print obviously, if I had the painting I wouldn’t be here would I?)
I think fate and destiny has given me my calling.
First of all I’m going to tell this slime to be a lot more begging in his manner until I decide he is FIT enough to purchase my panties…
Anna 😉
March 19, 2006 at 12:53 am #6870cherieMemberYou go, Anna! lmao
xox
CherieMarch 19, 2006 at 7:20 pm #6883AnnaMemberI’ve got an apology from My little pig-boy. Do you think I could post it on this forum, his humiliation will please Me more if it is a little more public. I’d like to ask the other Mistresses to give me some feedback regarding his demeanor. It would also serve to remind other pig-boys and sissy boys how they should conduct themselves when communicationg with Us.
Your thoughts please fellow Mistresses (fellow? fellow? is there a feminised version of this word that is more in keeping with Our way?)
Mistress Anna fkd
This is pig-boy’s apology
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