slaves are such a worthless, ungrateful lot…
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July 12, 2005 at 5:55 pm #2801
darkhairedkaren
MemberI needed to vent to some Ladies who would understand where I’m coming from. Even the best of the sissies and slaves that have contacted Me only care about themselves… [sigh] I guess that is why training is required.
mad :angry:
Mistress Karen
July 29, 2005 at 11:40 pm #3103cherie
MemberMistress Karen,
Saw this in the news and thought you’d appreciate it
http://news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u=/nm/20050727/od_nm/science_courtship_dc_1
:rolleyes:
xox
Lady CherieDecember 29, 2005 at 6:27 pm #5621BubbaTech
Memberit seems to me that you think you are in Control??
the slave has control, they are just letting you borrow it for a little bit. But when they want it back, it is theirs for the taking.. Correct??
it is true that in a True master – slave relationship, the boundries have to be sought, for each to know how far things can be pushed…
so at first it would be all about the “Slave” Would it not?? till you find the True Boundry, and they will Trust you not to cross it in the Future.
December 29, 2005 at 7:00 pm #5623MemberSounds like someone trying to top from the bottom. E-mail/online is such a controlled environment that any boundaries or limits are easily enforced.
Since this is the board for Mistresses, I’d love to hear about your experiences as either a sissy/slave or as a Master, BubbaTech. You seem to have some definite ideas on the subject.
December 29, 2005 at 10:07 pm #5624MemberI Can’t say I have done a lot…
I Just Dabble…
It is a Matter of Trust, the trust gained between the master, and the slave.
the trust that it will hurt, but not cause permant injury.
I once had a girlfrient that liked to get spanked, and another that liked to get tied up, and let her tie me up on occasion…
we never let it get too far, and we trusted each other.
and we had a really GOOD time…
December 31, 2005 at 6:40 am #5648MemberBubba,
You are very correct in that in an in the flesh BDSM relationship there would be a considerable time spent getting to know each other’s boundaries and establishing trust, but, as Karen points out, we are dealing with online interactions.? And not just that, but also with a very specialized sort of interactions – those between a paying (in some fashion) sub and his Mistress-for-hire.? In those circumstances the guy is often recklessly eager to dive right in to the most extreme fantasy scenario, even to the point of moving on to another Mistress if his first choice “holds back,” but shamefully lax in keeping to any actual discipline.? Very frustrating for the Mistress, especially since she’s likely to have put a HUGE amount of work into setting up the training program he insisted he wanted and is now ignoring.
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CherieDecember 31, 2005 at 8:51 am #5656Member[quote author=cherie link=topic=268.msg4308#msg4308 date=1136011215]
Bubba,You are very correct in that in an in the flesh BDSM relationship there would be a considerable time spent getting to know each other’s boundaries and establishing trust, but, as Karen points out, we are dealing with online interactions. And not just that, but also with a very specialized sort of interactions – those between a paying (in some fashion) sub and his Mistress-for-hire. In those circumstances the guy is often recklessly eager to dive right in to the most extreme fantasy scenario, even to the point of moving on to another Mistress if his first choice “holds back,” but shamefully lax in keeping to any actual discipline. Very frustrating for the Mistress, especially since she’s likely to have put a HUGE amount of work into setting up the training program he insisted he wanted and is now ignoring.
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CherieCherie – MARRY ME! Articulate AND a mind reader! That was exactly what I was trying to say. 🙂
I wrote this original frustrated post when I was first starting out. I’ve since learned to be more guarded in my time/energy investments with new/prospective clients. I save most of my freebies for regulars who I know are committed to developing the Mistress/sissy relationship and are not just trying to get something for nothing. There are a lot of so-called subs who shop around for a “Mistress” that will do exactly what he wants her to do, and if he doesn’t get what he wants right away, he’s off trying to solicit the next “Mistress”. Even worse, these guys are usually not willing to pay anything for this one-sided relationship/service.
The amount of B.S. involved in searching for a good slave is what’s keeping me from looking for one, right now. Just thinking about all those time wasters makes me tired…
January 2, 2006 at 4:47 pm #5675Member[quote author=darkhairedkaren link=topic=268.msg4316#msg4316 date=1136019079]
Cherie – MARRY ME! Articulate AND a mind reader! That was exactly what I was trying to say. 🙂I wrote this original frustrated post when I was first starting out. I’ve since learned to be more guarded in my time/energy investments with new/prospective clients. I save most of my freebies for regulars who I know are committed to developing the Mistress/sissy relationship and are not just trying to get something for nothing. There are a lot of so-called subs who shop around for a “Mistress” that will do exactly what he wants her to do, and if he doesn’t get what he wants right away, he’s off trying to solicit the next “Mistress”. Even worse, these guys are usually not willing to pay anything for this one-sided relationship/service.
The amount of B.S. involved in searching for a good slave is what’s keeping me from looking for one, right now. Just thinking about all those time wasters makes me tired…
then as you say, these people that WANT to pay you for situations and then Bail…Â You are assuming that they are smart enough to know what they actually want, much less, how to act??
get your money up front, tell him exactly what you will and won’t do, then if he fails to follow the rules, don’t wory about it, you do this for a living, and remember what they say about a fool and his gold, so if you don’t get it someone will…Â lmao
March 19, 2006 at 8:20 pm #6886Anna
MemberOld topic now granted; but a new interest for me.
I think Bubba is right here:
[quote author=BubbaTech link=topic=268.msg4336#msg4336 date=1136220466]
get your money up front, tell him exactly what you will and won’t do, then if he fails to follow the rules, don’t wory about it, you do this for a living, and remember what they say about a fool and his gold, so if you don’t get it someone will… lmaoGet your packages together, advertise them, let them choose, let them beg to be your little boys, and don’t enter into Mistressing them until the little pig-boys pay up. They only value what they pay for. If they’ve paid for the services of a Mistress then they’ll do the training. If they don’t, cos they’re not up to it, then so what? The Mistress has her money in compensation for the time taken to formulate the training packages in the first instance, and doesn’t have the actual work of communicating with the creeps.
Mistressing should be a pleasurable experience, the pleasure starts with seeing their hard earned pennies hit your bank account. That is how little pig-boys begin to earn their Mistress’ pleasure.
The demand for Mistressing is there, I’m convinced of it. Let’s work together Ladies and gather up their cocks and fuck their minds.
Mistress Anna fkd
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