send a pic first???

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    I’m not exactly “new” to selling panties but I have a question.

    A fellow emailed me some time ago wanting panties with a very strong visual stain, pee stains,etc – evidence of long, hard wear.  The visual, not the scent, was what appealed to him most.
    He told me he’d be willing to pay “up to 100” for a pair -  I told him nonsense and 50 was fine.  Maybe the high initial price was a sign that something was unusual?

    Anyway.  Then I got to wearing my panties.  And wearing them.  And wearing them.
    Now they’re pretty stained – I mean, SO stained that I’m not sure I would ever be able to use them again, even if I washed them.  I told him “um, ok, they’re ready, where is the money” and he told me he wants to see a picture first!!

    Most guys who have wanted any kind of “preview pic” of panties, or a pic from my website, never pay up.  They got what they wanted for free in the form of the picture.  I feel very foolish for trashing these panties for him – and now, I’m afraid he’s one of those guys who doesn’t pay.

    What should I do?  Send the pic and risk it?  Or just give up?  I really like this person, his emails are always very friendly and polite and articulate.  He seems like a gentleman in all ways.  We totally “clicked” on knowing exactly what kind of wear he wanted.  Now I’m just really confused.

    I’d appreciate input from both sellers and buyers.

    #5490
    Anonymous
    Guest

    It’s a scam.

    A couple (man/woman)  have been running this scam for years – they hunt down a lot of the newbies over at eBanned (they got me when I first started).

    You can dig through the eBanned 911 forum to find more details if you’re interested.

    #5491

    I’d just send the guy a small low quality thumb nail pic. One he couldn’t use for anything other than a preview. State that due to previous abuse he won’t be getting anything bigger and keep your fingers crossed that he’s ok.

    I always get my payments first, otherwise the panties don’t touch me. 😉
    Hope he’s a payer hun.

    smt

    #5496
    andie
    Member

    Yup, sorry Cherry but you’ve been had. This one is the used panty world’s own version of the Nigerian bank scam. He’s into the picture. Once you send it to him for free, why on earth would he need to send you money? You’ve already given him what he wanted. As a buyer, I can say with confidence that if a buyer wants something above and beyond the norm, it isn’t an insult to be asked for at least 1/2 or in full before the deal starts.

    #5500

    This guy is really nice in email, and I didnt feel like it was a scam.  But I guess I’ll just call it a loss, and use the panties in a photo update for my website.  I have a lot of fans who like to see the stains and these are pretty extreme.  At least then I’ll get something good out of them 🙂

    #5505
    Krooze
    Member

    I’d have to agree with Ruby that this is the typical scam that’s run on girls. The guy gets off on the pics so if you send them, he gets a thrill for free and you’ve wasted your time.

    You could test it out by telling him that you get payed for custom pics and these pics are very custom! Tell him that if he wants to see panty pics he needs to pony up some cash! If he’s serious about paying $100 for panties, what’s a few more bucks for the pics? Since he’s so nice, he’ll understand that you need to be compensated for your efforts so far.

    Personally, I think as soon as you ask him to kick in some earnest money, he’ll be gone with the wind! Sorry, I hate when these jerks treat you girls like this!!!!!!!!!  :angry:

    B)

    #5514
    Anonymous
    Guest

    [quote author=Cherry Satine link=topic=661.msg4158#msg4158 date=1135211160]
    This guy is really nice in email, and I didnt feel like it was a scam.? But I guess I’ll just call it a loss, and use the panties in a photo update for my website.? I have a lot of fans who like to see the stains and these are pretty extreme.? At least then I’ll get something good out of them 🙂

    It’s not common for people to be scammed by being treated rudely. They’re always nice – that’s why we fall for it. 🙂

    #5523
    BubbaTech
    Member

    If you send Pics, Make sure they are 1. not of you wearing them, and 2. Low res.

    then offer him the pantys for 50.00, and a photo set with you wearing them for 50.00.

    that is if yo sell pics of yourself wearing the goods…

    if not never mind, if he just wants the photos, then you may still get the 50.00 and then auction the pantys…

    Later

    Bubba

    #5770
    MissAsuka1
    Member

    I’ve been “had” once myself too. Sent some pic’s and never heard from this one dude ever again. :angry: It’s all good, though. Hehe. You live you learn is what I thought. No more freebies like that though. No way.

    Cherry, it since you already worn the panty hardcore and basically trashed it you might as well send a small, very low res pic of the panty. I mean if he doesn’t pay then you gotta throw the panty away anyway. Right? Might as well try. Just from now on they have to send the money BEFORE you start wearing the panty. Hope that helps.

    XxOo’s.
    Asuka

    #5771
    Krooze
    Member

    [quote author=MissAsuka1 link=topic=661.msg4444#msg4444 date=1137233326]
    … then you gotta throw the panty away anyway…

    OMG!!! It’s talk like this that’s gonna take years off my life!!! Say it ain’t so!!!!!    😉

    B)

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