Question For The Girls!

You can accept orders during any time of the month, just don’t wear any orders while you’re menstruating.  Scheduling is always tricky if you sell a lot, but I try to have at least one panty auction running at all times.  Even if you have orders coming in regularly (as opposed to a whole bunch at a time, then nothing), payment timing makes a big difference.  Sometimes I get paid online and can prepare them right away.  Oftentimes someone mails me payment, so I’m not going to wear those panties until it arrives (can take up to two weeks!) – long lag time even though they have already been sold.

My rule is first-paid-first-worn.  Once I receive payment that order can be worn; right away if I am not already preparing an order at the moment, otherwise, it goes in the queue if I have a bit of a backlog.  I’m a real woman with only one pussy, so I think a wait of up to a week is reasonable for a buyer to get a pair of panties done right (with all the time next to my pussy that I said he would get!)  smt

I agree – keep the client informed of what is going on at all times. If there is a delay and they don’t know about it, they may automatically think that they have been ripped off and the special “moment” is over for them – they might not even return.

Just say you have your girly time a bit earlier or something along those lines – you are a woman and have periods, period! 🙂 .. guys know this and there is no reason why they shouldnt understand.

Or.. get an IUD like me which stops periods altogether – I havent had one for 5 years, however, I havent had any time off either, so its apples and pears 🙂

Love CIndy x

Hey Jules
It depends what kind you get. Avoid the cheap copper ones at all costs.

Also I think most doctors will refuse to insert one if you have not had children before, so he might just be putting you off.

My IUD is called a Mirenna or something like that and looks like a small white plastic “T”.  It just contains a topical hormone so you dont have any crap raging around your whole blood stream.   However, it did cost me around 1000 euros so its not a cheap solution – but then it does last for 5 years!

The topical hormone only stops the build up of lining in your uterus hence you dont get periods.. as my doctor explained to me .. “where there is no earth the trees cannot grow” lmao.

I have to admit the first 6-8 months are challenging after having one inserted for the first time. Quite a bit of stabbing pains and bleeding. But if you stick with it then I have to say it was well worth it and I really would never change to anything else as I have not had any problems whatsoever with it or any further side effects since the initial “calming down” time. 😉

Love Cinds
p.s. Guys I know you are reading this and thinking Oh YUK – but what are you doing here anyway? .. this is the girly room – so shame on you for spying and being nosey! hehehee

Hi Kitty  **GUYS GO AWAY**

10 years means that it does not contain the topical hormone so yes you would still bleed.  The hormone ones only last 3-5 years maximum and then you would need to get it changed.  You would know instantly when the hormone isnt working anymore as you would start spotting between 3-5 years.

After you have had children the lining build up (endometrium) is much more than a woman with no children and your periods can become heavier and more painful.

With a topical hormone IUD it literally sheds all this lining away and leaves your uterus endometrium-free and prevents any further build up, hence no more periods.

Some people say this can be bad but I personally think that the pill is worse!

Besides having a period-free life is wonderful – I cannot remember the last time I bought tampax hahaaa

I would go chat with your docs and see if there is anything they can do – I would inquire about changing your IUD because it sounds as though this one doesnt agree with your body.  I actually think that your body is trying to expel it every month, which may be why you are having so much pain.

Love Cindy xxx

Hi Kitty .. thank you xx

Lets just say I have led a very interesting and varied, challenging life :-).  I dont know everything and would never claim to but I have got a fair bit of life experience under my belt over the years, which Im more than happy to share 🙂

Hugs xxx  smt
Cinds xxx

Yes thats another idea Kacie or in Europe you can get a small “stick” that sits under your skin (about 1cm long) and lasts for up to 3 years I think.  However, these do contain hormones similar to the pill, which doesnt personally suit me – my friend has the “stick” and she loves it, although its a bit painful to put in, its quick but quite a jab evidently.  :ohmy:

HAHAH I laughed so hard 🙂 … dont panic .. it goes in your arm heheee