Am I a prude?
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April 20, 2006 at 9:58 pm #7687
tastykacie
MemberHey ladies,
Just wanted to ask fellow sellers opinions on a topic I’ve been thinking about a lot recently. I offer a custom photo cd on my site which I put on with the intenion of people asking for certain poses of me in or out of panties. Well, it seems like I get requests for things I’m not comfortable with (anal insertions, panty stuffing) to which I politely decline and suggest they suggest a pose for me to do instead of an object for me to stick in my body. I’ve received emails back from guys who go on to say that “all the other girls do it” (really doubt that one).
But it got me to thinking. I don’t do that stuff, I won’t leave skidmarks in panties b/c I think that could count as biohazard if it were to be opened in the mail, and for some reason I cannot pee in front of others, so no pics of that. Am I a prude in the panty selling world? And do you think this will hurt my chances of selling?
Maybe I’m just thinking too much.Kacie
April 20, 2006 at 11:35 pm #7692Delicious_Jess
MemberAwww, there’s nothing prudish about you hun. You do what you feel comfy with and that’s the long and short of it.
Try a defined list on your site of what you won’t entertain or better still put a mini list on your contact form.I don’t think there’s much you can do to hurt your panty selling. We’re all indivuals. Some guys like filthy women who’ll try anything, some like classy sophisticated women. You can’t lose. It’ll all go pear shaped if you do requests you don’t like just to satisfy guys. Keep it fun, it’s just no good otherwise.
Jess xxxx
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April 21, 2006 at 12:42 am #7693Anna
MemberI completely agree with Jess, (okay so I usually do) only do what you are comfortable with doing or you won’t enjoy it, and the reason we sell our panties is because we enjoy it right?
Whatever you won’t do plenty of girls will but that doesn’t mean you’ll lose buyers. The best buyer are those who respect you for who you are, not how much of the veg shop you can ahem ‘entertain’.
You’re not a prude, no way, you just know your boundaries.
April 21, 2006 at 12:43 am #7694darkhairedkaren
MemberIf panty selling is a hobby you do because it’s fun, then stand your ground. But if it’s a job/business where you’re trying to earn as much money as possible (this is not a criticism – we all have to put food on the table, after all!), then you might wish to consider giving your paying customers what they want. (You can remind customers that special requests cost more.) Regardless, don’t let yourself be pressured into doing anything you don’t want to do. If “all the other girls do it” there’s no reason why they have to badger you for it – they can just go buy from “all the other girls that do it!”Â
Will setting boundaries hurt your sales? Maybe. I think it depends on the boundaries. I don’t show my face or full nudity, and I know a lot of guys aren’t interested in me simply because of that. (Apparently there isn’t enough naked-tits-and-ass on the internet – they need to see mine, too! :cheer:) But you’ll find the demands and desires of buyers (and would-be buyers) are endless; if you devote all your time to only making other people happy you’ll end up miserable. You have to consider what you want, as well, for panty selling to be an ongoing activity for you.
HUGS! smt
April 21, 2006 at 5:24 am #7707Cindy_PantyParadise
MemberGod no way are you a prude! I think the more you offer the more many guys want regardless of your boundary limit anyway.
I have my boundaries too and I stick to them faithfully, if they want something more or different I send them here to find a seller that might do their request. 🙂
April 21, 2006 at 9:11 pm #7736MemberThanks for the advice. To answer your question, Karen, no this isn’t for a real job, just for fun spending money. I have a normal job for the bills and then school takes up the rest of my time, it’s fun to have a sexy little secret.
I was totally fine for awhile, then it seemed like all of a sudden I got a string of emails asking repeatedly for things, even after I said no. I don’t understand why waste time trying to convince me when there’s so many other sites, so that’s what made me doubt myself.
I tried to talk to my roommate, but she really had no clue what to tell me, so I came here, and thanks. I guess I might’ve wanted reassurance more than anything.
You ladies are great, thanks!
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