how friendly?

Oh when they say that they are just being twats. 

You can chat to them and show them a bit of a “flash” so they know what they are getting but then Id draw the line – if they want more they have to pay you for it.

Its not a case of being an old bitch, its a case of running a business.  Dont show anything more than what they see at a beach.

Dont let them take advantage of you like that, if they want to buy they will – sounds to me like they are freebie hunters, I mean they have all the time in the world to chat to a beautiful woman … but you havent – and you must channel your energy and time into dealing with those that make it worth your while … or you will be sat on cam for 10 hours a day, sending out freebies or worrying if some freebie hunter might call you a “bitch”. 

The only “bitches” I see here is the people taking you for granted. xx

Just be nice and polite and say something like:

“Id LOVE to do this for you but actually I cant anymore – sorry. I run a business and if I sat here all day or gave out freebies to everyone I chat to, even though you are lovely, then there would be no point in me having my website and I wouldnt even be online .. Im sure you understand” 🙂

You see – be firm but tactful but be honest too – if they dont like it Kelly, then say well perhaps you should find another girl on the web who has more free time to enjoy your company.

:kiss:

I spend a lot of time chatting, I do mainly cam work so lots of guys have my MSN! I like chatting, and I often get bookings after chatting with people, but I have one rule… nothing comes off unless it’s a paid session! If they complain or pester me then I explain that this is what I do for a living and I can’t give it away. Some dissapear right away, others accept that. It’s the same with panties. Some guys send me a “gift” and get panties in exchange, but they don’t get anything for chatting! Maybe those who think it’d be weird to buy from you after chatting would be happier sending you a cash gift?

If you are busy then say so, just tell them you are busy and will chat later or chat another time.

Don’t worry about what a few freebie hunters think of you, most people know that they can’t have your undivided attention all the time. Tell them you have to go, then go. Even if they get in a huff about it they’ll come back  😉

Kisses, Jennifer xxx