I think it’s a male thing.
You know the old scenario where you sleep with a guy and he disappears never to call you or write to you…it’s the same thing perhaps? They’ve got what they wanted, enjoyed you thanks very much but they are not going to write to you!! Bye bye
Panty version – He’s got your panties, enjoyed himself and then thay’s it, he’s ‘had you’.
Also have you ever had a guy chase you and chase you until you say you’ll date him and then he disappears because it was the chase he enjoyed the whole time?
Panty version – he asks for certain panties, you say you have them but he’s gone off the boil now.
…..or perhaps that’s just happened to me??
lmao