Correspondence with panty dudes

[darkhairedkaren]

For the other panty gals/internet playgirls, I was wondering…

Do you get a lot of daily e-mail correspondence from panty guys?  Like daily e-mails talking about themselves, asking questions about you, talking about their panty order, or just about fetish stuff?

I am curious about what is “normal”.  I am not quite sure if in some cases it’s the guy

a) just interested in getting to know me,
b) missing something in his sex life so chatting with a girl online fulfills a fantasy, or
c) is just really, really lonely for female companionship and just wants to talk to a girl!

Any insight would be illuminating! 

Love,
Karen
XOXO

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

Hi Karen… it can be all 3 of those what you suggested or they are simply buttering you up to try and get out a freebie (rare but it does happen)

Mostly tho its just guys on their own who look upon you like their fantasy girl and to even talk to you is like the highlight of their day.

Or you get the guys in a dead end marriage, really frustrated and just want to feel special again.

Many of my clients started off as “chatters” and now most of them order from me regularly 😉 … some dont, but even so, when they dont write to you after a while you start wondering how they are hehee

However, you have to remember in the panty world -  nothing is normal because everyone is so different 🙂

Love cindsy xxx

[Anonymous]

I don’t look that much in to it to be honest. The majority of my gents are chatters before orderers, which I love. We just chat every couple of days about nothing and everything.

The way I see it life’s so damn stressful and women are so bloody confusing! Why not have a part time fantasy woman, one that gives you satisfaction, never moan and always wears the sexiest lingerie?! Every man should have one. (Have you seen the true story on Cindy’s erotica page Karen? “Cindy saved my marriage” it’s called I think. Cindy, panty seller/marriage counsellor!)  :laugh:

I think most of what’s wrong with the world is that people attempt to define normal, different is normal and that’s ok with me  😉 It brings about a question from the gents side doesn’t it…..what makes a woman sell her panties??

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[Anonymous]

Hi..I don’t normally say very much on here,But I always enjoy reading our forum as it sometimes brings up interesting points like this one..so if its ok I would like to add my 10p worth…I work and run a house and family so the time I get to myself is very limited on here or at home..When I am online I spend time answering emails,off line messages etc,I normally run with my message on.My point is some of the guys are on every day and I can enjoy a normal chat with them whilst Im doing my bits,We could talk about Them,Me,the Weather,Work,as you said they could be single or married guys but they respect me for the person I am,not for what I do online and thats great because I have made a few good friends through doing it.But I also find some of them can get quite funny with you if you are not prepared to work them up and cyber with them and or send them freebie piccies of you nude or mastubating..
I suppose its just one of them things we have to accept with what we do..
Sorry if I’ve slightly go on abit..
Marie..oxo :X

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

Hey Marie
I am also running a house, have 2 pre-schoolers and also was doing it all -chatting online, trying to be the perfect mother, wife, friend, playgirl, pantygirl, or whatever and after a while, I burnt myself out and had to take a 2 week break from everything.

However, I also made some wonderful dear friends during that time but when I got ill I laid down the law and realised just who were my real friends and who were just chatting me up for freebies .. my real friends respected me and often leave me messages and know that if Im too busy then I wont reply – they respected that.  The ones who were just in it for the free stuff disappeared.

Its not worth making yourself ill and neglecting your family.  I have been there and done that and at the end of the day probably some of your “friends” online dont appreciate you, they are just being selfish and thinking of their own selfish needs to get themselves off ..Im sure you know the feeling after cybering for free for 5 or more guys every day, it gets a little tiresome and you find you actually have no time left for your own private friends.

So… what I did was this ..I only go online invisible now which gives me the chance to talk to who I want when I want.  I also shut down my PC at 7 or 8pm most evenings and do something else.

To make it up to my “cyber friend”s I decided to hold a weekly or bi-weekly party online using Yahoo messenger conference .. and it worked a treat!

Or ask them to join here and use the chat room.

Marie .. .. point is dont run yourself down – you and your family come first and the others will have to wait or go jack off to “thehun.net” or something.

When you lay down the rules, you may be suprised who will stick with you and who will go somewhere else… its a good test to find out your true friends.

Love Cindy xxxx
p.s. you dont have to accept anything you dont want to!  You are a person not a machine!

[Delicious_Jess]

I demand the same kind of respect online as I do in my every day life. Luckily enough I’ve never had a bad customer yet. I sent one guy a load of free pics only for him to come back with that classic line “more pussy” my one line response was &quot:cheer:ohmy:n’t push it!” and he never came back. Guys like that will milk you for all you’re worth if you’re not savvy enough to spot a leach.

To all the demanding/leachers out there realise this, if you want a response within seconds then you have them on those automated pro sites. Go there! And let’s see you moan then when you don’t get enough (if any) free pink!!

Be brutal Marie! Say on your site that you chat NOT cyber unless it’s booked etc and inform them that it’s an extra not a privelige. You’re a hell of a woman to chat to everyone, I couldn’t do it, I’d never get anything done!!  🙂

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[Anonymous]

I totally agree with both of you Cindy and Jess.. When I first started I would spend hours on here talking to people and I suppose I did slightly neglect other things but as you say It is acase of family first and this second and the true people respect that and understand there are circumstances that come with us..like partners and family or jobs.that is why they like us and chat to us because we are the real deal,just normal every day women..

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