Getting intimate

[Anonymous]

Hi all,
I’d just like some advice on a buyer… I have a really nice guy that has regular potential and is getting very detailed in what he wants to do with me!!!  need I say more? fkd
I don’t mind this but then he asked for my number – no can do. is there a line we shouldn’t cross leading guys on – or do they love it too much eh guys?  jo

[DavC]

Vicky,

Strange to get a response from a buyer I guess but …

If it doesn’t feel right – then don’t do it! 

Its not about leading guys on.  Its about your safety and personal life.  If fun flirting/sexy chat feels “OK” then that’s fine but you have to be sure he sees it as “only fun” too. Us guys are actually sensitive souls as well (no laughing please)so its important that both sides know the rules.

You know his address – but actually probably little else about him.  So my view would be to play it safe.  Doesn’t mean you can’t chat – but anything else you must be ultra sure.

David XX

[Anonymous]

Thanks Dave,
I’m obviously very new to all this and panty loving is great, but email sex I wasn’t sure was part of the deal.
If I can make a guy happy then I’m all for it, I just don’t want to get it wrong.

[RebelsAnjel]

[quote author=StickyVickysKnickers07 link=topic=2021.msg13352#msg13352 date=1173726506]
Hi all,
I’d just like some advice on a buyer… I have a really nice guy that has regular potential and is getting very detailed in what he wants to do with me!!!  need I say more? fkd
I don’t mind this but then he asked for my number – no can do. is there a line we shouldn’t cross leading guys on – or do they love it too much eh guys?  jo

Hi Hun…I know for myself (I am relatively new as well)…I flirt my ass off literally here and on my blog…but I keep my personal life and this 100% separated as well…as for boundaries here…like i said…I flirt with literally everyone…but nothing personal 🙂

[Anonymous]

So, do you do email sex? fkd
or is it strictly panties?

[RebelsAnjel]

Hhmm….i know the letter I send out is pretty spicey as it is (I customoize them to each buyer)..but other than that nope.

[RebelsAnjel]

And also…I dont want anyone reading this to get the wrong impression please…I dearly love doing this and getting to know my buyers and what-not…it’s just that i deeply worship my privacy and there are a few things I simply won’t do…email sex (cybersex I guess you can say) is one of them.

[Jessia_Jones_666]

Don’t be giving out your number darling – use your common sense

[FetishKitten]

Yup, I tease and taunt (playfully) my guys 🙂 but I’ve never had cyber sex or email sex with any of them.  I’ll occasionally write up emails with instructions (my Mistress panties) but thats it. 

I have far more fun that way and cyber just isnt for me.  Stick to your own preferences.  Theres nothing wrong with cybering if you WANT to…but if its not what you want them meh.  Dont.

Simple as that.  Any buyer who needs that can find it elsewhere 🙂 your buyers will stay with you because they like you for who you are, and the panties you provide smt

I turned down a big regular because even though i was happy to do 90% of what he wanted  I just wasnt up for and refused regular cyber sessions.  I tried to help him find someone who would as that was something he really wanted that I just wouldnt provide.

[RebelsAnjel]

[quote author=Jessica_Jones_666 link=topic=2021.msg13361#msg13361 date=1173729355]
Don’t be giving out your number darling – use your common sense

Sound advice hun :)let’s all keep the playing field safe 🙂

[Anna]

Don’t ever feel as though email sex is part of the deal, it isn’t. You sell panties, they buy them, you send them, they enjoy them. Simple.

If however you decide to SELL email sex then go for it, there will be plenty of buyers. SEX SELLS – all of it, in every way possible.

If you are getting something out of it yourself then that’s no problem, enjoy – but never ever feel obliged or pressured or coerced. He maybe innocently enjoying a bit of fun with you but he may also have found a lovely girl (you) who will give him something for free!

I know I sound cynical but there are more ways of being taken advantage of, and ripped off, than you’d ever believe.

Think about it, he gets your number and he calls once, then twice, then he calls every night and you’re providing him with free phone sex. Those commercial calls can cost £1.50 a minute!!! Don’t give it away unless you are getting something too

[Anonymous]

i dont mind sending a saucy letter or email with an order but cyber sex is somehing completely.

[Tabitha]

:X Vicky , I’m guessing because your site hasn’t been up very long that you have only had one , maybe two orders from this guy …..Dont give him your phone number !!! think about it , he can then get your address and everything ..if you know them well then its ok but remember no amount of money is worth your safety!!

[Anonymous]

Guys, I have absolutely no intentions of ever giving out my number – I never said I have!!!
Its the cybersex I wasn’t sure about, but I think this first guy will also be the last, as hes effectively getting a free thrill!!!

[RebelsAnjel]

[quote author=StickyVickysKnickers07 link=topic=2021.msg13402#msg13402 date=1173802819]
Guys, I have absolutely no intentions of ever giving out my number – I never said I have!!!
Its the cybersex I wasn’t sure about, but I think this first guy will also be the last, as hes effectively getting a free thrill!!!

well sweetie we’re not trying to tick you off or anything…you asked our opinion on here and clearly each one of us (for the most part) has given you our own individual opinions and thoughts about what you posted. Anna mentioned that cybersex is not part of the deal…I told you I have boundaries and simply won’t do that…others have advised you to not give numbers out and be careful…all of us have made it clear that if cybering is something you’re into and feel ok with then go for it. You stated that you lilke feeling desired…hey that’s cool…what woman or guy doesn’t:huh: Bottom line here sweeite is for you to figure out your limits and boundaries, but still have fun at this as well and you know… sell your stuff (panties, etc.) 🙂

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