Getting intimate

[Anna]

[quote author=StickyVickysKnickers07 link=topic=2021.msg13402#msg13402 date=1173802819]
Guys, I have absolutely no intentions of ever giving out my number – I never said I have!!!
Its the cybersex I wasn’t sure about, but I think this first guy will also be the last, as hes effectively getting a free thrill!!!

No, no, we never said you did (did we?) Just do if you want to and don’t if you don’t.

Your decision of course but it’s always good to hear other people’s thoughts

smt

[Tabitha]

🙁 oops sorry Vicky , just re-read my post and realised I came off as a bit harsh , its just a thing I worry about sometimes because of the type of work I do outside of this and we do see some very very unpleasent people {not saying that everyone whos mentally ill is unpleasent but some people do use it as an excuse when they get caught by the police}.
Plus I’d been getting some nasty emails so was on high alert a bit…again soz!!

[RebelsAnjel]

[quote author=Tabitha link=topic=2021.msg13651#msg13651 date=1174302410]
🙁 oops sorry Vicky , just re-read my post and realised I came off as a bit harsh , its just a thing I worry about sometimes because of the type of work I do outside of this and we do see some very very unpleasent people {not saying that everyone whos mentally ill is unpleasent but some people do use it as an excuse when they get caught by the police}.
Plus I’d been getting some nasty emails so was on high alert a bit…again soz!!

Well i think it is important for each of us ladies to realize what we are doing and the danger that does goes along with this type of work…it’s always better to use appropriate safe guards than not and end up getting hurt or stalked

[Anonymous]

Don’t worry about it Tabitha, I know all the girls are just looking out for each other and thats great.
The guy who wants my number has bought pics from me now, so he’s a serious buyer, but I politely avoid discussing phone calls, its a step over the boundary I’m not willing to take, anyway, I write it better than I talk it.
Does anyone else get guys saying they love them though?

                          bb

[RebelsAnjel]

[quote author=StickyVickysKnickers07 link=topic=2021.msg13727#msg13727 date=1174347927]
Don’t worry about it Tabitha, I know all the girls are just looking out for each other and thats great.
The guy who wants my number has bought pics from me now, so he’s a serious buyer, but I politely avoid discussing phone calls, its a step over the boundary I’m not willing to take, anyway, I write it better than I talk it.
Does anyone else get guys saying they love them though?

                          bb

I just started about a month ago so I couldnt tell you LOL!!!

[Tabitha]

:blush: I’ve had it once or twice and I have to say that there has been a few times it has made me distinctly uncomfortable , probably just being a bit picky but to my mind theres a line between being the object of a fantasy and love .
Fantasy is great , its superb and there should  be more of it in the world but when a buyer tells you he loves you and its only the second email then it tends to make me go hang on…….
{although I do always sign my emails love and hugs which is a little bit different to my mind}
I much rather a buyer tells me he thinks I’m the wittiest thing since dorothy Parker and I have a body he wants to worship and say thank you to the naughty way !!!
{fussy ain’t I ! its probably doing philosophy , it makes you a bit funny about semantics} 

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

Yes but you can love someone in many different ways.  I have come to love quite a few of my guys over the years and I know they feel the same. Some I even text or talk to on the telephone. But it can never be the same love that comes from an actual physical relationship.

Obsession is not love, its just the idea of being in love that causes the infactuation.  Love is a very strange word and should not be used lightly.  If you feel uncomfortable by someone declaring their undieing love for you, step back, and realise that unless you feel the same and you are both giving into your feelings then it can only be a infactuation love or fantasy love on his part – after all you are sharing your most intimate parts with him.  The cruncher is that the feeling of being in love and the emotion of love itself is almost the same – obviously the same “high” endorphines are released.

If you don’t feel the same way, which you probably don’t, just say how lovely that he thinks of you so deeply and that you care for him too.

Personally, I would never ever hurt anyone if they told me they loved me but I wouldn’t string them along either.  You are providing something very delicate and intimate to many guys and it is a responsibility on your part to ensure that everyone knows where they stand.

[Tabitha]

Oh absolutely , if you must let someone down then it should always be gently and politely.
I think I just get bit concerned when someones saying they’re totally head over heels immediately probably because I know at some point I will have to draw the line and potentially upset them
What was it Shakespeare said about treading softly ?   

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

I can understand that immediate rush of being head over heels, but in reality it just cannot be true.  Let them enjoy the rush just make it clear that there is a wall between you.  smt

[Tabitha]

:embarassed: ahh that first heady gush ….I mean rush ….
I think I might become the first panty nun that would make it so much easier …..or not …

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

I did laugh – Panty NUN  lmao.  Tabbs …can you really abstain from masturbation in this job?

[mikeguk]

Panty NUN?  lmao now thats one for the books  😉

[Tabitha]

Its NOT masturbation , its a new form of aromatherapy massage !!! Thats my excuse and I’m sticking to it…..anyway It doesn’t count if you repent afterwards {or so I’ve been told , any passing priests want to correct me feel free}
hehehe I do get the silliest thoughts sometimes

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

hmmm very interesting. I have this DVD on tantra massage and its quite um how to say eye opening :P.  Of course the word masturbation NEVER comes into play, it is simply a massage of various places including your base chakra just inside your pussy. hmmm me so horny  :laugh:

[Tabitha]

A girl should always know where her base chakra is or as it is commonly known in tabby land her internal handbag , just don’t go losing your spare change on the way to nirvana …hehehe

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