I think talk can be over rated in some situations. Many things sexual are best incorporated slowly into your sexual activities. Don’t rush them and at each step of introduction, guage your partner’s reaction to the new play. Remember, if they get nothing out of it, it might be hard to get them to play along.
One time, eat your GF thru her panties, telling her how great they look on her right before. The next time when you slide them off of her, tell her how much you love her scent when you’re making love and then wonder if the scent is in the panties right before you sniff them. Make sure you make that “Mmmmm” sound when you sniff. 😉
Then since you’ve now brought sniffing into the mix, the next time you sniff them, compliment her scent and mention how nice the panties feel in your hands and on your face. With her attention, slide them down your chin an over your chest. Tell her how good it feels. If she seems to like this, you might continue down over your tummy and to your privates. Just go slow, remember to verbalize and always pay attention to her as you go. Maybe running your free hand over her as you do this stuff or if she’s excited, maybe playing with her goodies to keep her juices flowing.
If she’s reacting well to all this, I would then let her see me stroke myself with the panties while playing with her and telling her how wild it all is. If she sees you enjoying the feel of what you’re doing, it might be easy to take her hand and put it over your’s as you stroke. Then maybe ask her to help and let her stroke you with the panties as you play with her and tell her about it all.
The best thing I’ve found when introducing new things is to do it slowly and show your partner how much they’ll get out of the new play. The key to anything new is that BOTH partners have to realize some enjoyment from it (even if it’s only seeing how much your partner gets off on it).
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