Is buying panties being unfaithful?

[meyerlansky123]

If a guy has a girlfriend or wife and is buying worn panties is he being unfaithful?

Guys do you think it is cheating?

Lady’s for would you feel if your boyfriend or husband was buying panties from anther women?

[Anna]

If I found that my boyfriend was buying panties from another woman I’d be extremely upset. I’d see it as cheating. 😡

[Serena]

I would be upset to find out without him telling me first.
If he’d asked me, I would had grant him permission to cheat 😉

x

[Nicola]

I wouldn’t mind if my partner bought panties of someone. I really encourage my partners to be open in every facet of our sex life, so if anything I’d be hurt that they didn’t trust me enough to share this part of it.

Also it would be nice if they shared them with me. Plus I could recommend some damn sexy ladies from this site 😉

[Desire]

if my husband wanted to buy panties i would be fine with this as long as i knew about it, if i found out he did it without telling me i would go mental!:mad:

[PRH]

Coming from a guy:
( how can 1 be unfaithful if trust and honesty are at the forefront of any relationship )—- Communication is how things become working!!! :y32b4:

* hard task sometimes to follow,but if you love the person your involved with,it’s not very hard at all *

[admin]

This is a great but heavy question meyerlansky123. As seen by the responses so far, it seems that it is something that might vary between each person and each couple. To get a fair look, turn it around and ask “If your wife or girlfriend was chatting up another guy, looking at his nude or semi-nude photos, and buying his dirty underwear to enjoy, how would you feel”? Ouch! :ohmy:

The optimal situation would be to have your partner involved in some manner and to use the panty fetish/buying experience as way to spice up your relationship with the person you love. If that can’t be done, then yes, you cover your tracks like your life depended on it because if your significant other finds out you have been enjoying panties on the sly, there is a chance that they will be very hurt.

🙂 PK

[naughtynurse]

I agree entirely pk with what you are saying.If the man wishes to buy then he must be responsible for his own actions. As human’s we all have our own desires,maybe they cant be met by our partners.So people will try to find an outlet for this desire somewhere else.

[Love2Smell]

Two years ago, when I first discovered the Hog, I contributed a story which explained how I got here. The story covers a lot of ground (I can go on, can’t I? So much for the myth of taciturn men), but it includes some discussion of whether panties constitute cheating.

No, I don’t answer the question, but I do think about it. And I know that my wife would definitely consider it to be cheating. But, if our sex life was what it used to be — or if she would just leave her OWN panties in a suitable condition for me to enjoy, I probably would not even be here…

Rather than repeat myself, here’s a link to the story. I hope it will encourage some discussion.

[jazzy]

As i am single i have no issues with this but seeing the guys who work with me,either married or having a partner,most do like adult films or a look at the magazines the young guys buy then chuck away.Panties are just another item which can be enjoyed but i think it is everyone’s decision whether to admit or discuss the fact you buy them,some people are quite open with their partners while others do have secrets.Thankfully,not a problem i have but still a good topic.

Jazzy:dry:

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