Meeting in Person

[kyliespanties]

Hi everyone! I just started selling panties. I just got an interesting offer. A gentleman from my area offered to pay me $65 a pair for my panties if I gave him my phone number and met him in a public place to hand deliver them to him. I feel slightly uneasy about this seeing as I have a slight fear of being murdered. Anyways I was wondering if anyone else has been simularily propositioned and what they did, what they think of the situation, ect. Thanks!

[Ozzy]

do not meet anyone unless you know the person well. plus, $65 is not worth it anyway… say thanks and move on..

[Ruby Red]

I’ve seen many threads regarding this issue before.

Someone asking to meet you is beyond the scope of what we’re offering. This request is one for prostitutes, not panty girls. Your life and safety is priceless, even 65 million wouldn’t make me visit a stranger.

Keep your personal information private. Protect yourself and have fun. There are many ways to have fun within this fetish and community 🙂

You’ll find that many great buyers wouldn’t ever ask that of you 🙂 There are some great people here and they’ve guided me well :kiss:

Keep your wits about you, you’re new, so some people may be taking advantage of that. But not all people are bad, you’ll find out soon enough there are many fun panty lovers 😀

Take care,

xxxx

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

We might get propositioned but there is no way on this earth I would EVER meet with a buyer. I am not a prostitute! That was a very dangerous thing to do, please don’t be tempted again and not even with $$. No money is worth your life.

[Anna]

Most people are perfectly sane and safe and it may just be that he wants a pair fresh off a woman because he’s being scared of being ripped off, but why he would need your phone number is beyond me. He could possibly take a fancy to you and pester you continuously, ringing at all hours, waving the cash and expecting you to come running. It could be very distressing.

We’ve had this sort of request before on here, and we’ve always given the same answer. Prostitutes are in the business of meeting up with strangers for private transactions and those are the women who possibly wouldn’t mind handing over their panties for a fair sum which includes their time. If the buyer wants them that fresh then he should have no problem in contacting a prostitute.

We’re panty girls. We like to stay safe.

Tell him thanks but no thanks is my advice.

[laculotte]

I agree with the others.

Pleeeeease please please be careful and always play it safe…Don’t give private information to buyers or customers. The good guys will totally understand and respect your privacy! Those who don’t however… :angry:

[Desire]

i have to say i do agree with the others, i would not meet anyone AT ALL!! the money is def not worth that! its tempting when your new (like me) but you will get someone come along who is happy to have your panties posted to you;)

sam xx

[Serena]

You’re right to feel uneasy. From what you have said so far I sense you already know its a bad idea.

Good for you 😀

*have a karma fro me xx

[Anonymous]

I know some panty buyers and sellers have met before. But that was after years of mutual friendship, developed by them.
You are new, you dont know who this guy is, so i would have to agree with the girls.
Keep your info safe and yourself.

[kyliespanties]

Thank you guys for reassuring me that meeting him was not a good idea! Everyone out there isn’t a serial killer but I don’t want to take that chance when I don’t know him! I told him I wasn’t interested in his offer. He still e-mails me though and I just keep telling him if he wants my yummy panties so bad he can go through my website, they’re cheaper that way anyways! Thanks for the great advice!

[Anonymous]

I think you are totally right with that decision Kylie, its really not worth the risks. 🙂

[Love2Smell]

I agree with Anna that the request for a telephone number is unnecessary and suspicious.

And do I understand you folks correctly here? You’re suggesting that sending panties in the mail, for money — versus giving someone a pair of panties in person, for money — are two fundamentally different acts where the law is concerned? That the first is not prostitution, but the second is? Of course, we buyers shouldn’t ask a seller to cross over any universally-recognized legal barrier. (I understand that SOME states in the American South have laws directed specifically against panty selling. But it’s legal, if frowned upon, in many other places.)

Having said that, here are my arguments for the other side.

First, there are stories going back decades about dancers at strip clubs giving and/or selling their panties to customers (I’ve never visited one, so I can’t attest to this). Strip clubs are legal, and fairly heavily policed. Are the dancers acting illegally, if they give away or sell their panties? Why don’t we hear about strippers getting arrested?

Second, I know that I’ve read at least two stories here on Panty Hog about face-to-face meetings between a buyer and a seller. The first story — forgive me for not remembering all the details — took place in the Chicago area. I recognized both the buyer’s and seller’s names, they were long-time members of this web site. They met at a bar, and I believe that each of them came with a group of friends. It sounded very safe and sexy for both of them. I seem to remember that she actually waved the panties past his nose for a moment in the bar!

Our Mistress Anna also met with a buyer in person. We’ve discussed it here. She once had a breathtaking story about the experience posted in the Stories Section. As I recall, the meeting began in a restaurant or coffee shop. But then, she actually got in the guy’s car to take the panties off. I and other people were surprised at her bravery, even concerned. Anna has said that she won’t go that far again, and I don’t blame her.

But finally, for all the love you panty ladies have shared with me by mail, the best experiences I have had continue to be with the rare panties I find myself — when I am a guest at a woman’s home, or vice versa. In my experience, something vital is lost from the panties, with even one or two days in the postal system.

If it were safe for everyone concerned, and unquestionably legal to do so, I would love to meet in person.

[Anonymous]

I am sure that on the whole, and certainly most guys on this site, would be safe to meet up with to exchange panties – for me, it wouldn’t be a question of legalities or not – its personal safety.
I feel the issue here was a guy had, sorry for the pun, “come across” Kylie’s site and so she has no idea of who he is or any type of relationship built. It is this type of scenario that could potentially be harmful in many ways.

[Anna]

Love2Smell wrote:

I agree with Anna that the request for a telephone number is unnecessary and suspicious.

And do I understand you folks correctly here? You’re suggesting that sending panties in the mail, for money — versus giving someone a pair of panties in person, for money — are two fundamentally different acts where the law is concerned? That the first is not prostitution, but the second is? Of course, we buyers shouldn’t ask a seller to cross over any universally-recognized legal barrier. (I understand that SOME states in the American South have laws directed specifically against panty selling. But it’s legal, if frowned upon, in many other places.)

That isn’t what I am saying. I am saying that a prostitute is more likely to meet up with a stranger because she has the experience and knowledge to know when a situation is safe. A newbie panty seller hasn’t. It is unfair of a buyer to ask this of a newbie.

Prostitution isn’t illegal. It isn’t in the UK and I’m sure it isn’t in the US so legality has nothing to do with it. It’s about risk assessment and risk awareness.

Having said that, here are my arguments for the other side.

First, there are stories going back decades about dancers at strip clubs giving and/or selling their panties to customers (I’ve never visited one, so I can’t attest to this). Strip clubs are legal, and fairly heavily policed. Are the dancers acting illegally, if they give away or sell their panties? Why don’t we hear about strippers getting arrested?

Because it isn’t illegal.

Second, I know that I’ve read at least two stories here on Panty Hog about face-to-face meetings between a buyer and a seller. The first story — forgive me for not remembering all the details — took place in the Chicago area. I recognized both the buyer’s and seller’s names, they were long-time members of this web site. They met at a bar, and I believe that each of them came with a group of friends. It sounded very safe and sexy for both of them. I seem to remember that she actually waved the panties past his nose for a moment in the bar!

This was an experienced seller who took every precaution, and had plenty of back up. I’m sure it can work. No reason why it shouldn’t. The seller just needs to ask herself if the risk is worth it.

Our Mistress Anna also met with a buyer in person. We’ve discussed it here. She once had a breathtaking story about the experience posted in the Stories Section. As I recall, the meeting began in a restaurant or coffee shop. But then, she actually got in the guy’s car to take the panties off. I and other people were surprised at her bravery, even concerned. Anna has said that she won’t go that far again, and I don’t blame her.

Yep, I did didn’t I? 😛 All done in a public place where I weighed him up before I took the decision to jump in his car, in a public carpark in an area I knew better than him. Like I said, it can work.

Since then I have often taken my panties off in front of men but this time it is in my dungeon and I use the panties to gag them. I shove the panties halfway down a stocking and then I shove the panties in their mouth and tie the stocking behind their head.

Sometimes I sit on their face with my panties on and I smother them, raising my bum every now and again to let them get a gasp of air.

They’re usually naked and tied up so again – no risk to me 😉 Plus in my line of work I do tend to live on the edge anyway and I’ve met some fantastic blokes because of it.

But finally, for all the love you panty ladies have shared with me by mail, the best experiences I have had continue to be with the rare panties I find myself — when I am a guest at a woman’s home, or vice versa. In my experience, something vital is lost from the panties, with even one or two days in the postal system.

If it were safe for everyone concerned, and unquestionably legal to do so, I would love to meet in person.

It is definitely legal in that it isn’t specifically illegal. Statistically, we are all at more risk from our boyfriends, partners, exes, work colleagues and friends than we are from strangers.

I personally wouldn’t have a problem with meeting up with someone but I would make sure it was in a public area. It would also be with someone who I had had some correspondence with too just so that I can evaluate their state of mind. They would also have to understand that I would be meeting them to exchange panties and payment only, not to ‘audition’ to be their girlfriend or potential new love interest. In other words it would be a business meeting.

I personally refuse to live my life on the assumption that there are a dozen serial killers out there specifically wanting to slit my throat. But I am careful and I do listen to my instincts.

My advice is listen to your instincts, be safe but don’t be scared for no good reason. We shouldn’t live our lives scared.

Just weigh up the costs and benefits of meeting up with a buyer. Is there really that much difference between meeting up with a buyer or meeting up with say, a friend of a friend on a blind date?

[Love2Smell]

Prostitution isn’t illegal. It isn’t in the UK and I’m sure it isn’t in the US so legality has nothing to do with it. It’s about risk assessment and risk awareness.

Actually, I’m pretty sure that prostitution IS illegal in the United States, except in the state of Nevada.

I personally wouldn’t have a problem with meeting up with someone but I would make sure it was in a public area. It would also be with someone who I had had some correspondence with too just so that I can evaluate their state of mind. They would also have to understand that I would be meeting them to exchange panties and payment only, not to ‘audition’ to be their girlfriend or potential new love interest. In other words it would be a business meeting.

Anna, if you lived in my town, I would enjoy meeting you in a coffee shop just to chat — even if no panties were involved. 🙂

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