need some input. If i asked for coworkers panties..

[sitonmahface]

im curious. if the average woman would be super disgusted at a guy asking for a pair of her undies? heres the thing, where i work at theres this good looking woman age 35’ish ide say who is divorced and has 2 kids. seems like shes not dating anyone. Shes talkative and nice and has a bit of an openside from the way she talks. this is a tough situation cuz i work with her and if i ask her and she says “ewww no way” then im kinda marked for life with her as a sicko lol. so do you think the average woman whos not a good goody two shoes might go for this? or should i just keep my panty aquisition an internet only thing?  😉

[leatherznzpice]

Hi sitonmahface .. good screen name by the way :cheer:

I’d be inclined not to ask, simply get to know her more, and don’t get yourself marked as some wierdo at work.  It’s an awkward situation and I’d be inclined to stick to the internet acquisition stratgey for the moment.  Maybe over time, if you get to know her better etc etc but take care, work place adventures can backfire badly

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

I have an idea .. when you are next chatting to her and maybe having a giggle, perhaps say that you enjoy touching all the sexy lingerie in superstores and you feel really norty… see her reaction.

If she thinks “oo yeah and giggles” then you could mention .. well a friend of mine actually prefers them already worn, then laugh and gauge her reaction.

That way you get your answer without admitting anything really kinky 🙂

If she seems interested then you could say – have you ever had a guy like that sort of thing?

You could then say you have never tried it yourself but hey could be fun ….. – give her lots of smiles etc so if it backfires you can turn it into a joke about your kinky friend!

🙂

[Delicious_Jess]

ooooo!

I say don’t mix business and pleasure. You could be working with this woman for years and often the implication of anything sexual, even if she’s not present while you indulge, could really freak a woman out over time. Even if she agrees to a pair of panties you don’t know how she could feel about it after &quot:cheer:ohmy:es he fancy me, lust after me, fantasise about me still” It could turn a bit awkward.

Noooo, I wouldn’t do it, could blow up big time, and if by chance you’re reported…….I’m showing my age, so bloody cynical!!

smt

[BubbaTech]

[quote author=Delicious_Jess link=topic=733.msg4512#msg4512 date=1137702498]
ooooo!

I say don’t mix business and pleasure. You could be working with this woman for years and often the implication of anything sexual, even if she’s not present while you indulge, could really freak a woman out over time. Even if she agrees to a pair of panties you don’t know how she could feel about it after &quot:cheer:ohmy:es he fancy me, lust after me, fantasise about me still” It could turn a bit awkward.

Noooo, I wouldn’t do it, could blow up big time, and if by chance you’re reported…….I’m showing my age, so bloody cynical!!

smt

I Agree, unless you have a intimate relationship with a co-worker, forget about it, it is a cause of more Trouble than it’s worth!!!

also I think relationships within working environments should be discouraged, that trouble is best avoided.

[sitonmahface]

Thanks all for the great advice! i see now it will probably be a bad idea. Last thing i want to do is make a lasting reputation at my job of being a weirdo  :laugh: maybe ill ask her out and go from there hehe. Im only 22 so dont know how good my chances are. anyways thanks for saving me lol

[Krooze]

Actually, I think that the reputation you would have gained would not have been something for you to witness. If you are in the U.S., you probably would have faced a sexual harassment suit and probably lost your job pretty quickly.

It’s tough enough to find a girlfriend that’s into panty play and such, let alone aquaintences from work.

B)

[darkhairedkaren]

Unless you don’t plan on working there long, I’d suggest you not ask this woman out, either.  Office romances do happen, but they can mess up your career and reputation, big time, if they go awry.

Personally, I wouldn’t risk it (the panty or the date) with a co-worker.  “Look but no touch” has been my policy with co-workers (and believe me, there were some that I wanted to touch VIGOROUSLY!)  Find a local kinky friend on a fetish website, or something, and get in-person panties that way.  🙂

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