Perseverance sadiejane. That’s the only way I’m afraid. There is no easy way. These ways can help but give it time.
1. Post regularly on the forums. Buyers will often only take the chance on a newbie seller if he can research you and see that you aren’t going to disappear with his money.
2. Get Panty Trust verified. Shows that you care about the buyers’ valid concerns.
3. Get a blog with plenty of pics to show that you are a girl and not a guy. Post regularly to show that you are prepared to invest time and energy into your business. You can also sell direct from your blog (and not pay Ebanned’s fees).
4. Feedback – Accept that you will have to sell low on auctions until you build up some good feedback.
Good luck.