Panty Buying Etiquette. What would you do?

[andie]

Here’s a topic that has been bothering me for some time. A year or so ago I bought a pair of panties off a lady who looked nice on her site and seemed nice enough in her emails. The problem came when I got the package. Now I’ve been buying for a time and have taken a great interest in the various strengths of aromas and tastes you find among sellers. But I got to tell you that when I open this package it just about knocked me on my ass. I mean there is no other way to say it than to say that these things fucking stank man. The most racid vile odor you can imagine reeked from the crotch of these panties. Needless to say, these things went directly in the garbage no way in hell they were getting close to my mouth or nose.

So I first felt sorry for this chick because I figured she must have something really wrong going on down there. Later I got pissed off because I figured there was no way you could have such an awful stink coming out of yourself and not know it. She had to know what she was sending to me. Anyways I didn’t do anything about it. I never contacted her again.

Has anyone had this happen to them too? What should you do? Should I have sent them back and demanded a refund? Sent her a pissed email? How should this have been handled?? 🙁

[Pencap]

Dude, I was browsing a few sites last night, and I swear this one gurl had to have had a yeast infection…she advertised theese things…all yellow an crusty…..and I mean CRUSTY….I honestly pictured those as to what you described…..

Buyer beware…..
Sorry 4 u…..
That’s why youre here….this is the good stuff…….much better luck to you….

I got some freebies from Africa like that……ewe….
Still in the collection though…eeeewwweeewww!!!!
yea, I’m a freak….

[Amy8]

Wow! This is an interesting topic.  Best read after you’ve eaten dinner though. :ohmy: :ohmy:

Amy

[darkhairedkaren]

If the panties were prepared by and worn for the stated amount of time by the seller herself, I’d say she held up her end of the deal.  (If they weren’t worn/prepared in the manner agreed upon, that is another story.)  What is rancid to your nose might be heaven to another buyer.  (Trust me on this one!)  You can never know for sure that you will like a woman’s scent – you’ve got to sniff to find out!

If you feel the need to say something to her, you can e-mail and say that the panties arrived but were not to your taste.  (e.g. Smell was too strong or flavour didn’t do it for you.)  After that I’d look into trying a different seller.

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

I agree with Karen…. all you guys have such different tastes thats why I am always careful and ask what they like.

If they were really that bad for you then you should have contacted her right away and said they didnt smell right.  The worst thing you can do is be rude or nasty because that will just upset her, and you will get nowhere.

Explain that they smelt too sweaty or amonic or whatever and that you are really disappointed as you had hoped they would smell more musky or like pussy.

However, us women all do smell differently, no two women are the same.  So at the end of the day you gotta find the “right” girl with the “right” pheromones to suit you.

The panties you were sent might drive another guy totally wild in ecstacy!

Love Cinds.

[leatherznzpice]

Hi Andie,

I think Karen and Cindy are right, every woman smells and tastes different.? You know that yourself as you take an interest in the differences you’ve noticed between the different ladies you buy from.

In the instance you talk about, I’d have emailed the seller and said , sorry these didn’t do it for me, politely explianing why etc and see what happened.? If I didn’t hear back then I’d move on, plenty of sellers to choose from!

[andie]

Thanks for the advice. But I think some haven’t understood me man. Make no mistake this wasn’t a case of this girl smelling a little different. This stench was no joke. These panties smelled very close to decomposing flesh. I’m talking eye watering gagging reflex here. I assure you that there is no buyer who would have thought these were heaven.

[darkhairedkaren]

[quote author=andie link=topic=397.msg2170#msg2170 date=1125155058]
Thanks for the advice. But I think some haven’t understood me man. Make no mistake this wasn’t a case of this girl smelling a little different. This stench was no joke. These panties smelled very close to decomposing flesh. I’m talking eye watering gagging reflex here. I assure you that there is no buyer who would have thought these were heaven.

In that case you should e-mail the girl and tell her the panties arrived but smell wrong (like something has contaminated them.)  Describe the smell objectively (not deliberately insultingly.)  Then see what she says.  She may offer a new pair or a refund.

Someone said it before – being polite and kind will get you a lot farther than being mean, threatening, or furious.  If a client is polite I am willing to do a lot to make sure he is happy.  🙂

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

Forgive me Andie…. but you mention you bought these a year ago? Why didnt you email her then when you received them or at least raised the subject here at that time .. I see you have been a member on PantyHog almost since day one but these are your first posts.

If you didnt get what you ordered and paid for then you have the right to let the girl know.? Also could the time getting to you in the post make any difference .. eg: from UK to USA or visa-versa … if it was really hot weather then a pair of sweaty panties in a plastic baggy for a week can change the scent quite alot and rapidly.

I personally think you have left it too long to expect a replacement or your money back but the girl deserves to know that you were not totally happy .. (maybe she worked out or something on that day!?!?!)

Who knows…but if I was you I would drop her a little note and tell her because as far as she was concerned she did her job and is none the wiser you had a problem.

[Krooze]

I don’t think Andie was asking the question to do anything about it now. I think he just wants to know how he should have handled it and should handle it if it happens in the future.

I would have politely informed the seller that it seemed there may have been a problem of some kind. Since I’m in contact with the sellers I buy form before during and after a purchase, I feel I can go to them with any concerns.

Also, I feel that most sellers want to know and deserve feedback on their product. I wouldn’t ask for a refund or another panty but I’m sure that most sellers would offer it if I am unhappy but respectful and polite.

Good luck in your future purchases!

B)

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

Well personally, if someone bought a pair from me and didnt enjoy them and was still pissed about it a year later, Id want to know about it!

😛 Love Cinds x

[darkhairedkaren]

[quote author=Cindy_PantyParadise link=topic=397.msg2188#msg2188 date=1125176890]
Well personally, if someone bought a pair from me and didnt enjoy them and was still pissed about it a year later, Id want to know about it!

😛 Love Cinds x

Exactly.  Me too.  If there’s a problem I won’t know unless you tell me.  I want to know so I can make the situation right with you and so I can improve future panties/service.  Any panty girl that’s in it for the love (not just the money) will probably feel the same way!

[andie]

Damn I didn’t mean to cause a big fuss. I was just asking for advice here on what other people would do. Krooze seems to have got the jist of my post and hit it right on the head. I’m not going to contact this chick now or ever again. That deal is water under the bridge for me. I pitched those panties over a year ago. Hope I never have the same deal again but just incase I thought I’d throw it out to see if someone had it happen to them before. Like Pencap said this lady must have had some kind of infection.

I don’t see her here on this site. I wasn’t rude to her then and I’m not now because I didn’t even say who she was. Why am I being accused of being nasty and rude? WTF? I wasn’t going to email her and tell her she must have some kind of crotch rot she had to know it anyway. Why am I being shamed for having been here for a long time before I posted? I see it says there are 700 some people registered here so I don’t think I’m the only one.

[Krooze]

Andie, read the posts again. Nobody is accusing you of anything. People were just stressing to bepolite and it will go farther when you have to make that sort of contact. Nobody was tryingto say you were doing anything wrong!

Now get xome panties and kick back! Time for a sniff!!!

B)

[jazzy]

A good point for all buyers:

Cindy and Karen both make a good point.
If you have a problem with any item you should inform the seller right away and then they can sort it out.
If they don’t know about it how can they help.?

? ? ? ? ?:laugh:? :laugh:? :laugh:? ? Jazzy? ? :laugh:? :laugh:? :laugh:

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