Rant of the Day! How to avoid deadbeat bidders

[LadyCassandra]

Hey girls,

I feel so naive…admittedly only been doing this for 6 months or so, so hoping i can learn by your advice.

I’ve been completely sucked in by some lying f**k who said he wanted to pay me ?30 for a pair of panties if I wore them for a week, but as i didn’t yet have any ebare feedback, could i send him a pic with his name on my tummy to prove i was real.

Like the good little girl I am I took the pic & sent it off, and I never hear anything back 🙁 what is worse is that he has obviously either closed his account down or blocked me from emailing him as when I tried to find out what had happened it was returned as undeliverable…

I don’t accept THAT online payment method, so that isn’t it, so i’m guessing a freebie hunter, who has had his wicked way with me, and is now leaving me hanging.

So Malcolm who likes pink ribbons and cake & cricket (maybe in that order….maybe as his email address) – is a LYING CHEATING F**K, and I hope he never has the pleasure of a ladies company again as he does not deserve it. I hope that everytime he tries to pleasure himself over my cute little picture with Malc written on my tummy in lipstick he will instead see MARGARET THATCHER IN A STRING THONG. And if doesn’t make him limper than a month old celery stick then he really does have a problem.

Okay rant over, thanks for listening! Anyone with any advice on how to spot these freeloaders before its too late, it would be most greatfully received!

Cassie x

[ebare]

Hi Cassie,
Bit confused! Did this buyer actually win an auction or did he request the pic before the end of the auction? If it was before the end and he put an email address in the questions section, it wouldn’t have gone through as emails in questions are barred and dont apear as full addresses. Therefore if you had tried to send an email using the address provided it wouldn’t have gone through.
If someone is requesting pics to prove you are real before the end of an auction, you can always post a small pic in the questions area.
So to be fair, he may not be a deadbeat buyer.
On the other hand, if he won an auction and is not responding to requests for payment – drop us an email at eBare and we can help contact him for you and at least ensure if the buyer is not serious he will be unable to do this to another buyer.
On many occasions we have been able to help bring both buyer and seller together when, initially, one party has thought the other is not responding, not understood requests, miscommunication, problems with emails etc so drop us a line and we can help out.

Best regards

Lisa
eBare Adult auction

Lisa
eBare adult auctions

[Delicious_Jess]

Hey Lady C.

My advice would be get yourself Panty Trust Verified and on Ebares verified list. Some guys only use verified girls and it may crack down on the freeloaders asking for proof pics. Most of the time guys won’t ask because you’ve already gone through the process.

I stopped doing pre-order verification pics a long time ago. I got ripped off for pics a couple of times and drew a line under it. Now I don’t wear orders until I’m paid my fees and I’ll do verification photos with orders only. Verication pics are a good thing but the guy should extend some good will your way first, it’s only fair. Guys may have been ripped off previously but it works both ways, so have us girls  😉 If they don’t understand that then they aren’t the kind of buyer you want anyway. The best verication method I’ve found is simple banter. Invite your guys to chat to chat to you and get to know you before they order, at least that way it’s not a slammed shut “I don’t do free pics, don’t ask” and appears a bit more welcoming. I have met my best loyal customers and friends this way. Then when they’ve been with you a while the free pics just flow  🙂

Personally I avoid slamming a guy on the forums until I’m 100 percent sure. New customers like to feel safe with you having their private, potentially damaging information.

Hope all your other guys are good-uns! Get verified sweetheart, it’s free traffic and they’re lovely-lovely people too!!

Much Love,
Jess xxx

[LadyCassandra]

Hey Jes,

Thought I’d already replied, so sorry late, hoep you don’t think i was rude, as i appreciate any advice i can get off experienced gals like you  😉

I’ve taken the pics and sent off for my verification from Panty Trust now, so fingers crossed this won’t be a prob for very much longer…in the meantime i’m just pointing guys to my blog where there are pics to share.

Is this a regular problem? are there a lot of guys who like to presurise into freebies?

Thanks again for all your help – i do really appreciate it!

Lady C
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[Cindy_PantyParadise]

Hi Lady C .. I hope you dont mind me putting my “peanuts” worth in LOL

Yes, there are a few guys out there purely after freebies, unfortunately, and that is why girls wont part with goods or too many pics before they see payment.

However, most potential buyers are just trying to make sure that you are actually the girl they are buying from.  Its people like that guy openly selling home-made used panties under 9 or so different profiles on Ebanned and Ebare that really damages the community and makes buyers even more wary about trying new girls.

Once you are fully Panty Trust Verified (yeah try and get round that one fake-wits :P) – then buyers will be far more relaxed about buying from you and will not make you jump through so many hoops to prove who you are.

But now and again, there is always one or two buyers who mess girls around, and its usually the newbies they try it with because they know that they are not quite as experienced in spotting a “deadbeat” than perhaps some of the girls that have “been there, seen that” 🙂

Good luck Lady C xx

Love Cindy x

[Delicious_Jess]

Hey Lady C,

Awww, I didn’t think you were rude hun.  😉 Big thumbs up for getting verified, hope it helps to stop the free loaders.

I used to stumble upon a couple of freeloaders when I auctioned but they were rare. I’ve heard that ebare are always willing to play the middle man (or woman) should a guy scam you, not pay or pester the girls. Hopefully over time word will get round that it’s not tolerated and they’ll move on. It’s all part and parcel though I think. If you’ve a Blog and it has free pic then you can easily say an outright NO to free pics as you’ve already suplied some on your Blog and you’re verified. Sorted!  😛

I’m hugely strict about that kind of stuff, I guess to some it might look mean, but it works, I’m never asked.

Ps: Show us your Blog!! I’m nosey  :cheer:

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