Telling your other half?

[meyerlansky123]

So I was reading FHM on the bus. They had a thing in it about women’s fears about having sex. In it one women say she still Carry fresh panties for when she is about to have sex. Bit of a spoiler.

So how do you tell your loved one that your in to worn patties and like the smell of her pussy and would love to sniff her worn knickers? Gents and Lady’s any thoughts?

[Nicola]

Hmm, firstly I think this question is 2 fold, there’s a big difference between telling your partner you love their scent- to telling them you like the scent of other women.

Women have been mad to feel ashamed and embarrassed about their vaginas for as long as we’ve been living in a patriarchal society ie. forever. So for a women to actually hear that her scent drives you wild- well she may find it hard to believe at first, but will most likely ultimately find it flattering and empowering.

Telling your partner about your love of the panty sniffing fetish is another issue all together. That’s a little bit harder. I suppose seeing as you should know your significant other relatively well, you could anticipate how receptive they would be to it. Open minded people might find it strange, but will be curious and try to understand it.

I’ve been thinking about how I would tell someone I was dating that I get off on selling my dirty panties online. I’m sure there’s been hearts broken in the past because of it- but then there are some ladies (like Fetish Kitten) who have really supportive partners who don’t mind, and in some cases also get involved with certain elements of the business.

I can think of a few of you gentlemen who might be interested in being “fluffers” or quality assurance officers :givhrt

[jazzy]

As a gentleman i have offered my services on countless occasions as a quality control manager,free of charge i might add but have yet not received a pair of panties to test.

Anyone interested get in touch,silk and satin may involve a small fee.

just ”dreaming”

Jazzy :dry:

[naughtynurse]

I cant understand in this day and age that fetishes still seem fairly taboo.I can think of far worse things than panty fetish.MY other half is very supportive of what i do, creating my website and taking photos . I am very lucky he understands my panty side.lol
It must be very hard to have this liking and cannot discuss it with your partner,there must be many out there that feel this.So this is where us girls come into our own,we can talk to these men ,we can be understanding of their feelings.This in my opinion is where you show your worth as a se ller by having the patience and understanding .:kiss:

[Exposing Couple]

I would say just tell her you like her panties and you may find she will be happy with it. But you need to know her and know how your relationship is. All open relationship is a true and strong one, why lie about the rest of your life.

She will feel happy you like her smell and that her smell turns you on. Most guys think that it will upset girls but girls sometimes feel they smell wrong (too strong etc) their pussies.

So if she knows you like her smell, this will give her a complement and may bond you closer. Start by saying when you lick her “Your pussy is soooo nice tasting and smells erotic and let her hear you sniff it for a while as u slowly lick etc”

Start with oral and comments and go from there!

[Desire]

for me it would be easy but then hubby and me have a very open relationship. it must be very difficult for someone to tell all if they are not sure what their partner would think.

if i couldnt share my life totally with hubby i would question our compatability as i could not live in a relationship with secrets.

i do think there are ways to go around it tho, for example starting off with the compliments about your partners panties and then taking it from there

sam xxxx

[Love2Smell]

Nicola has identified the key issue. My wife knows half the story. She knows that I love the smell of her pussy, and that I have found that smell on her panties. She found it strange, but it wasn’t a big deal.

If everything worked out in life the way it should, I would never seek another woman’s panties. But life doesn’t always cooperate. Where should I start?

First, I’m forty years old. My wife is more than ten years older than I am, going through menopause.

Second, the life she led before we met taught her a lot of sexual shame, and I’m her second husband. We met relatively late in her life. It isn’t always easy for her to allow herself to enjoy sex. And she is quite self-conscious about her smell.

Finally, several years ago she mysteriously contracted several urinary tract infections. She began a regimen of washing, changing her underwear twice daily, and wearing panty liners to catch the occasional squirt of pee when she coughs.

None of that diminishes my love for her, or my sexual interest. But our sex life has dwindled to around two times a month, and there’s almost never any smell in her panties to tide me over while I wait for her.

How’s that for a story?

[Nicola]

I think it’s beautiful the amount of love and respect you have for your wife Love2Smell. Your respect for her and her boundaries is so paramount and you validate her which is important for any woman’s self esteem.

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