Upset! *sulks*

[Anonymous]

I just have to vent a little.
I spent 2 days chatting to a guy who seemed to be a very interested buyer. It seemed that he is still thinking what panties to buy and such, so I kept chatting and spending a lot of time on him.

Today, when I told him if he “would not like to decide finally”, he told me. “Ah, I would never buy such a thing. Fetish is not about money. A pity for you.”

God, I stayed polite and nice, but damn I am upset.

[Anna]

Yep, welcome to panty selling! 

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

My God what an utter asshole!  Here have a huge big Cindy Hug xxxx *insert big smiley hug here**

now stick him on your ignore list – or make a soab/wanker list and add him to it, so you know who he is if he pops up again xxx

But as Anna just said … its all part and parcel of the biz

smt smt smt smt

[Anonymous]

It is just so that he got so rude in the end. If he said he changed his mind or something, I would say ok, he decided not to buy in the end. That happens a lot… but this was just so… *grabs a shotgun and grins insanely*

As for the start here:

Had 3 boys almost buy shoes but then change mind, lol. Ok, happens.

One crazy psycho from Turkey who thought I will send him items for free, because then he will allow me to come to Turkey (on my expenses, lol) and have my feet worshipped from him.

One crazy guy who claimed to have collection of 9000 panties and was offering 2000 for my one month worth of panties. Lol, did not buy that at all, but was nice to him anyway.

Few guys who wanted to buy panties and ordered and all and then said “but what when my old mommy/wife/insert random person finds out?”

Some guys who wanted me to send first. (Ah, yes, sure, then I would not hear from them. Hahahaha…)

And finally, the few lovely guys who ordered and liked the items 😉 Big hug and rain of panties to the good fetish guys around!!!

[Kinky Kate]

The good ones make it worth it & the bad ones make a seller appreciate the good ones even more!  :kiss: kisses to all the good buyers out there!!  KK

[ClarkGriswald]

From a buyer’s point of view there seem to be some buyer bashing posts here lately. I get it that people who want nothing but freebies or had no intention of buying ever are a pain in the ass. However, this site is all about the used panty fetish so you will probably get some questions from guys here who maybe just got into it and have never bought before.

I’m not saying that you have to be strung along by guys who are only out to waste your time, but some people new to the fetish might need a little hand holding. Us panty buyers buy as part of a fantasy situation. We need to at least “think” that you are sending your panties to us in a sexy way. It’s not the same as buying a pack of pencils at the office supply store just be careful not treat us as if it were. Hope this makes sense.  :huh:

[Anonymous]

Yeah. I am not saying that I do not like to chat or such. What made me angry were that “last words”.

I love to talk about this fetish (and some other, there is not much I would not be at least a little curious about, lol ;)).

You know. I am being honest with people. I love to chat, but I also want to sell.
But obviously, people seem to not be honest with me. I can understand, that they can be affraid that I wont talk with them anymore, if they are here just for talk, but that is not true. Panty buyers have a priority with me (and I can even stop some other activities because of them – for example not watch a movie, but chat, not go out, but talk about their wishes and such), but even when a guy does not buy and is nice, I love to chat. Especially about corsets 😉

But ggetting the seller all prepared, having an item basically reserved and saying something rude, it can really ruin my mood.

Btw. If someone was up for a chat, my yahoo ID is MissSilverCat. I am a little busy with studying though, so I am being very slow, lol.

Take care

Miss Silver Cat

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

Clark, my lovely … nobody here is bashing buyers EVER! 

The fact remains that there are many many asshats out there who take us girls for a ride just for a cheap thrill – like there are many many fake sellers out there too who take buyers for a ride. 

Im more than happy to sit and chat to someone on messenger, go on webcam and I have even telephoned a few at my own expense, and some never bought …that doesnt bother me at all, as I enjoy it.

This is not the problem we are addressing here – its the ones that appear interested and you spend more time with them than you do your current clients trying to give them all the information and fantasy they wish to have, only for them to turn around and say *for example* “oh no Im not interested in buying anything I just wanted some dirty talk”.
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Please do not ever think we are bashing buyers – buyers are what makes Panty Hog and keeps us girls happy!  For every 100 wonderful buyers there are going to be one or two asshats.  Its only fair that we can warn other girls who the asshats are just like you should warn others about the tuna fish farms!!!

Panty Hog is a panty resource for all, the good the bad and the ugly!   lmao

 

[leatherznzpice]

hmmm I don’t see any BUYER basing going on?

I do see ASSHAT timewaster basing, and sellers venting their understandable frustration at having their time completely wasted by such timewasting fucktards   🙂

Feel free to bash the timewasters ladies  🙂

[Ozzy]

ughh god! those assholes are all around the place. totally all of them lonely losers who doesnt have a damn life and get off by chatting with the girls. It’s very interesting that there is a pattern here… they always target the newbies!! trying to take advantage… screw the losers…

I’m sorry that you had those assholes. I know you are upset but try to think of it as an experience.. well as a matter of fact it was an experience. stay away from the chatters .. hugs

[jazzy]

There are good sellers and bad sellers.
There are good buyers and bad buyers,we all agree,but in fairness to Clark i was badly treated my first time and i was more cautious the next time,this is the point he was making.It is a good idea to warn of any bad experience but i’d rather we praised the good buyers and sellers.
I found Cindy and i am delighted with her service and endless kindness.
now-who is your favourite lady,or any nice comments about anyone,buyer or seller.
Remember we are one big happy family. smt

:laugh:  Jazzy    :laugh:

[ClarkGriswald]

Thank you Jazzy for getting my point. I’m all for bashing the asshats. All I’m saying is to be careful to make sure you’re dealing with an asshat and not a newbie. I didn’t mean to imply that anyone here was jumping the gun on that decision. The guys silvercat is describing sound rightly like assholes. those of us that have been around here awhile can read that into the situation. But…we’ve got allot of new panty sellers and buyers maybe looking at panty hog forums for the first time. I’d hate to see a new seller cut a new buyer off at the knees for asking questions because she misinterpreted what’s being talked about here.

As Jazzy says, “it’s nice to be nice”  🙂

[admin]

[quote author=EuropeanGoddess link=topic=1162.msg7016#msg7016 date=1147874709]

One crazy psycho from Turkey who thought I will send him items for free, because then he will allow me to come to Turkey (on my expenses, lol) and have my feet worshipped from him.

Turkey? Foot fetish?! Oh Oh  lmao  

Just kidding big O.  😉

[Kinky Kate]

Clark,
I understood the point you were trying to make.  I think most of us sellers are thrilled to have a newbie under our wing, so to speak.  Now the people posing as buyers, who are dishonest & string us along is another matter.  Even Newbies that have no intension of buying, but are just feeling things out are always welcome to ask me questions & such…I’ve assisted a few guys to explore the panty world, even though they said upfront they were just seeing what it was all about.  But these guys were honest, respectful & didn’t get ticked at me if I needed to leave them to see to a customers needs for a few minutes.  I didn’t expect a sale from them, & that was fine by me.  I saw it as friendly chats that just happened to be about the panty world.  BUT these were not dirty chats/emails or cam shows.

Sooo…newbies need not be intimidated.  Just treat everyone with respect, & that’s what you’ll get in return.

Kate

[Krooze]

The panty world is expanding and with that comes more and more buyers, sellers and jerks. As a seller, you are not just exposing your business locally, regionally or even nationally. You are exposed worldwide. You may not actually sell worldwide but the exposure is there. That increases your odds of dealing with idiots.

As a seller you’re going to see many really nice buyers and may see many dicknoses, be they religious fanatics, freebie hunters, time wasters and a whole pile of other problem people. Hopefully, your dealings with the jerks will be few and far between and you’ll have a vast majority of the good buyers.

B)

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