Wife won't accept panty fetish

[uncleredbuck]

My first girlfriend loved panties…..she loved her panties and she liked me in her panties….she figured it out and used it against me sometimes…or to my advantage and pleasure.

My wife doesn’t like my panties….sure she’s donated a pair to my cause and she’s even tolerated an occasional wearing but when it comes time for sex…they hafta come off.? She says men in panties aren’t a turn-on or sexy.? She doesn’t like it at all……..I love her in a pair of sexy panties.
She knows I have a fetish….but she thinks it’s weird.

I’ve had a thing for panties ever since I can remember…..I love looking at them, feeling them, smelling them, wearing them…wanking in them.
I don’t masterbate for my wife in them…..I do like sex with my wife but would like to bring panties into our lives all the time.
I have a secret stash she doesn’t know about….I have about 25 pairs that I keep in secret…..I change at work………..I would love to go 24/7 but she would probably freak-out.
I wear my jockey shorts alot but I would wear them less if she would let me wear panties….I gave up on trying to steal or wear hers……they are kind of small and I have tendency to stretch them out…..and I’m deathly afraid of getting caught wearing her panties.
I’ve tried buying matching sets (his and hers).
I’ve tried telling her her panties are so sexy I hafta have them…and then take them…..but she takes them back.
She has given me one pair in 10yrs….because they were too big for her……I don’t really like them but I’m not going to look a gift-horse in the mouth.

Any suggestions for getting her to come around?

[cherie]

Wow, that is SUCH a good question Uncle Redbuck!

I’m gonna have to think on it a bit, but I’ve helped people in similar situations before…send me a private message and maybe we can discuss it in more personal detail?? The trick is to figure out what SHE gets out of it, make it a pleasure for her too….

x
Lady Cherie

[darkhairedkaren]

You may have to compromise…  Can she wear the panties while you have sex?  Or could you just hold them in your hand?

Perhaps if you point out that your panty weakness could be used against you, your wife will participate (to get the housework and repairs around the house done, dinners cooked, romantic gifts…)  She’d be a smart cookie to realize that a little panty action could make her life a whole lot easier!

[cherie]

That’s perfect, Karen – housework is the way to a woman’s heart, lol!

Maybe she wouldn’t mind touching & teasing you in panties if you were washing the dishes at the same time.? ?;)

xox
Lady Cherie

[darkhairedkaren]

[quote author=cherie link=topic=344.msg1931#msg1931 date=1124371292]
That’s perfect, Karen – housework is the way to a woman’s heart, lol!

Maybe she wouldn’t mind touching & teasing you in panties if you were washing the dishes at the same time.  😉

xox
Lady Cherie

That’s right Cherie!  Fellas, watch out!  I’m that bad woman your mother wanted to be warned you about.  😉

Seriously, Uncleredbuck, I would approach this issue from the standpoint of “what’s in it for my wife” versus “how can I MAKE her do something that only pleases me”.

[BubbaTech]

I think you can start with mens underwear that feels closer to hers than going all the way to pantys.

don’t they make silk boxers, and different types like that? 

men’s underwear with a panty feel, I could make millions… LOL  lmao

[pantycouple]

Most men who wear panties ultimate fantasy is to be able to wear panties in front of a woman. Since most men who wear panties or have a panty fetish are straight there fantasies tend to be wanting to wear with there wife or girlfriend or either have her use her panties to stimulate him or have her watch as he uses her panties. The amount of guys who enjoy panties is amazing and many woman are starting to take notice and starting be accepting of this and once they figure out they have nothing to worrry about if there man likes wearing panties, or using panties to pleasure himself many woman are actually into it. Some woman just will not accept it or are very difficult about it. Many of those woman are very close minded, selfish and not very open sexually. So how do you change a woman like this, time is the answer as its not going to happen over night. Instead of making panties all about something that pleasures you, you have to get them to lower there guard and make the panties all about there pleasure. Show them that you enjoying panties is a bonus for them, pay more attention to them, make the pleasure all about them. Its going to take time with a woman who is close minded, but slowly introduce panties more and more, making her feel ok about panties being involved in your sex. Also do it occasionally, if panties have to be involved every time you have sex she will get annoyed at that. Another thing is many woman fear a guy wearing panties must mean he likes guys, when in fact most men who wear panties are straight. Be prepared to have a conversation about it to ease her worries. A relationship is about making each other happy, ask her what things turn her on and what things she would like to try. Try and get her to open up, it might take time so don’t pressure her, again don’t be selfish and make it all about your pleasure show her that you wearing panties and enjoying panties can also be pleasureful for her also, pay her extra special attention when you are wearing. There are many women out there who do enjoy a guy wearing panties or using there panties to pleasure themselves, I am lucky to have a wife who enjoys panties just as much as I do, I think she has a bigger panties fetish than I do. I was lucky to meet her and not have to worry about what she thought about my panty fetish.

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[deepeefan]

Life can be a ‘beach’… sometimes, sheet!!! everything does not always come in one package where relationships are concerned. BOTH of the two best fuckers i’ve ever had…GGZUS CRIESTTTT (one was an expert screw-babe who typically loved working atop,squatting,doing a slow-winding from cock-root to cock glans, GGZZUSS,OOOH PHUCCK!!!; the other could slow-hip-grind from below with her sloppy, slimy-wet pussy,ooooohhh… phuckkit)abhorred panty fetish play, seeing no fuck benefit in the practice. So its not only maidenly handraised gurrls who wont fetish panty. So while with them I said “down boy” (metaphorically) to panty fetish and gave oevr to the great physical thrills.Sometimes i could almost cum just watching them walking and swinging their hips. With a staunch panty prude who has nothing that special to offer in the way of fucking, frustration is bound to occur in the male.You have to weigh the good with the disadvantages and get your thrills elsewhere, Discreetly. She’s good wife otherwise?, faithful?try gently and with LONG patience to convert her. If not , grin and bear it.

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