worn4u.com

[barksdale]

hi everyone, i am actually a first time buyer..so i guess mabye i am being a little overly cautious..so for me to say that worn4u.com is a ripoff would be presumptous of me..seeing as i have yet to purchase anything but, i have been searching the internet for days trying to find the girl(s) i would like to purchase panties and pantyhose from..well i have seen many sites with girls offering to send pics holding signs..or even just a piece of paper with the name of the buyer, while wearing the items they are purchasing…i have even seen girls who offer short video clips..or long masterbation videos wearing the items, well the other day i started corresponding with donna from worn4u.com..the pics on the site are of a gorgeous girl..i was turned on, so i wrote her..a few times..i was probably being a pain in the ass, but i am a picky shopper, and i asked her if she was willing to send 1 pic while holding a sign with my name”Sorry I cannot remove your fears, if you feel uneasy then your best not to order from me. This may sound rude but I am very popular and I am not going to beg for anyone’s order. Feel free to place an order, get free access to my explicit section and enjoy my panties by all means but I am not going to start going out of my way in such a time consuming manner and even finding someone to take the pictures in the first place which puts me on show and feel like some fool to be honest with you.

Donna x
that is her response…a ripoff?…i have no way of really knowing..and thats the problem..i do not want to slag on her, or her site..but i don’t think that my request …which many other sites offer as standard practice …was overly rude..i am just trying to get verification using a method widely practiced…well what do you guys and girls think, i would love to hear from some sellers to see if my request was valid or not, mabye some of you know her and trust her..lol..i still look at the pics..and am still turned on..so mabye there is hope for her and i yet, i believe my icq number is listed, i will check back here for feedback

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t blame you for turning your nose up if you recieved such a response. My photos are my own work and I take them all, knowing that I’ll NEED to take pics I had to invest in a healthy amount of kit to do so, as for being on show, obviously I don’t have a problem with that  😉 I wouldn’t say what you’ve experienced is a rip off, if I was asked over and over for free pics then I’d send the same sort of response but not to a general request. I actually ignore requests for free pics as I clearly state not to ask for them, I’m sure a few peeps will say I’m rude for that  :laugh:

Have to say I used to do validation pics, no more!! I’d get people asking for them in the hope of free porn and when they didn’t get it they’d send me a “Can you do it again but without your panties on?” mail. That’d really piss me off!! 🙂

The best way of doing it is to email for chats, I know that’s how most of my long term customers got to know me. And find a girl who’s Panty Trust Verified, there’s a few on here including Cherie and Cindy. Most of the girls send free photos of them wearing your order anyway. I find sites that refresh it’s pics often to be more reliable than a site that has stale pics that never change so look out for those. Take a look at the free gallery here and try the girls sites. As the girls here are much more ‘public’ and active in the comunity I doubt that they’ll let you down.

Don’t be put off Barksdale, there’s oodles of gorgeous panty girls that I’m sure will be more than happy to have you on board. Happy hunting.

Jess  smt

[Anonymous]

Hi Barksdale

Well i would be happy to provide you with a photo of me holding up a sign with your name…email me k1nkyangelina@aol.com and we can sort something out xxx

[darkhairedkaren]

Barksdale,

If you require a custom pic you should always be willing to pay for it.  $5 seems to be a common price.  If she has to do her hair and make-up, shoes and outfit for the photo then it actually is a lot of extra work for her. 

I provide custom pics to customers who have already paid.  It is included in their purchase.  I do not show my face so it is not a tremendous amount of work for me.  (The pictures are also not centerfold-quality – they are simply a little taste while the package is in the mail.)

As for a seller sending proof pics to potential buyers…  It is really the seller’s choice.  If she has more orders than she can handle then of course she’ll accept the ones that don’t ask her for extra work.  If she has been established for a long time (with lots of repeat customers who trust her) then it’s almost an insult to be asked to prove that she’s who she says she is.  This might have been what Donna was feeling.  I think she was honest (and right) to recommend that you buy from someone you DO trust if you don’t trust her.

If you still want to buy from her you can ask for referrals from previous customers or offer to pay for the pic.  If she is as much of a turn-on for you as it seems, $5 for a hot custom pic of her is a small price, IMHO.  🙂

Love,
Karen
XOXO

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

Well on my site I have various options. For cotton panties the buyer can choose to have no photo, photo emailed or photo enclosed.  On my satin panties page the buyer will receive 2 pics of me wearing their panty they bought.

My pictures are not that explicit – its just me proving who I am and if I am anyway taking pics for an order, then taking 5 mins more of my time to write someones name on a peice of paper and hold it against my chest whilst I take a pic of myself is no big deal.

If you are real, then it should not be a great big WOW to prove that fact.  I will even go on webcam for 5 minutes to prove it to a potential buyer.  One buyer made me put lipstick on my cheeks like a painted doll to prove that the webcam was not a video…. It kinda makes me sad that there is so much distrust out there and just proves that too many people have been ripped off in the past.

If you are real and take pics for your clients anyway, then whats the hoo-har with holding up a sign to verify who you are.  If you dont take pics then I think asking for a small donation towards your time to do them is acceptable – but once you start saying “no” then you may not get as many clients as you could have, whether you are real or not….

Maybe the reason a seller cannot provide pics because she works long hours, or she keeps it a secret from her other half ….. who knows!?!?!?!

And of course – remember – there is always Panty Trust 🙂

Happy buying and happy selling to all 🙂

Love Cinds xxx

[Anonymous]

My lagitimate reason for not doing them (aside from the cheeky freeloaders!) is that I live in a busy house, one where it’s difficult for me, like Karen said, to get dressed up , set everything up and take pics on demand. This is the reason I don’t do custom requested sets either. To do photos I put on a full face of makeup, usually at about 12.00 at night, set up while everyone’s in bed and finish at about 3.00!!!! I did it last night *snore*

Can’t imagine doing that every night to hold up signs  :blush: I’d like to think I’ve made every effort to prove I’m real and if that’s not enough then there’s little more I can do, maybe that’s what worn4u thought? Hmmm?

The beauty of amateur sites is also it’s downfall, I’m a real person and there’s only 1 of me. I’m only human I guess.

[jazzy]

With regards worn 4 u.
First of all the young lady clearly states NO FREE PHOTO’S.
There are 15 on her website and 16 more with your order(explicit)
Panties are only ?12 and post and packaging is free.
Had i not had a good supplier i would certainly give her a try.
And NO i don’t know the young lady in question.
If you must have a photo ,find someone who does send photos.
It is only my opinion but the young lady looks quite genuine to me.

? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? :unsure:? ?Jazzy? ? :unsure:

[Curve]

LoL! Curve lives! Lots of growth since the last time I was able to roam the halls of Panty Hog. ?;)

On this subject I am amazed. What the hell kind of a response was that to send to someone interested in buying from you? I have no idea as to if that seller is for real or not. If she is so damn [shadow=red,left]popular[/shadow] I’m sure thousands will be along to defend her honor here.

Seriously, Barksdale, whether she is for real or not, how in the world could you say you might still buy from her? Are you serious? If you like the pics on her site, spank the wanker all you want to them but then buy from someone who actually gives a shit. ?:) In the time it took her to compose that email to you, she could have easily helped you to feel better about purchasing instead. That response to you wasn’t rude, it was downright hostile. Who needs that shit? I buy used panties for pleasure and fantasy. A nasty ass attitude blows that right out of the water. If she’s so friggin angry at life and doesn’t have time to give you a little sugar, what do you think the panties would be like. I’d bet they’d be worn maybe a half and hour. Then if you had a question, you’d no doubt get an angry reply telling you to sod off. Like I said, buy from someone who actually atleast gives the impression that they enjoy selling panties.

And them’s my two bits….
Curve

[Anonymous]

:cheer: I love a no shit straight talker!!  :cheer:

[barksdale]

thank you all for the feedback, and just to clarify…i was asking for a picture verification AFTER i ordered..i work hard, as i am sure you all do..i in no way wanted or asked for anything free…the only reason i asked her..was because i saw the “hold up a sign with your name on it, sent with your order” on multiple sites..i did’nt think it was a unreasonable request…she has many beautiful pics on her site..i am just looking for verification that i am recieving the items from the same person that gets me interested in buying their items in the first place…AFTER I ORDER, when i find that comfort level, and level of arousal..i can’t wait to buy them, so thank you all..and i am now off to check out all your sites!

[barksdale]

[quote author=jazzy link=topic=341.msg1791#msg1791 date=1123706829]
With regards worn 4 u.
First of all the young lady clearly states NO FREE PHOTO’S.
There are 15 on her website and 16 more with your order(explicit)
Panties are only ?12 and post and packaging is free.
Had i not had a good supplier i would certainly give her a try.
And NO i don’t know the young lady in question.
If you must have a photo ,find someone who does send photos.
It is only my opinion but the young lady looks quite genuine to me.

? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? :unsure:? ?Jazzy? ? :unsure:hmmm, whats with this free pic stuff? i did not..and do not want a free pic, i offered to pay her EXTRA for a verification pic…ALONG WITH  my paid order..i work my ass off 6 days a week, i don’t expect anything in this world for free…i might add, that what i proposed is STANDARD PRACTICE at alot of the sites that i have checked out over the last few days…and i have no idea, and really cannot speak on her genuiness, or lack thereof..only the fact that i don’t think she is a very good salesperson, she had a sale, lock stock and barrel…and she talked ME out of it

[Krooze]

HI Barksdale! I guess I just don’t understand what you’re trying to say with this thread. By her response this girl proved that she could use some lessons in tact and customer service. But really that’s about it.

There has been nothing stated that proves (or even hints) that she is not a reputable seller. Not seeing what you had written to her, maybe she misunderstood and thought you meant for her to take the pic before you were going to order? We just don’t know.

Face it, there is no set of standard practices when it comes to Panty Providing. Each and every girl has to decide just what services she will and will not provide. Just because many girls offer a ‘proof pic’ with their sale doesn’t mean they all do or have to. Some girls provide pee panties but that doesn’t mean they all have to.

Barks, you did the right thing by writing to her and asking your question. She gave you an answer that showed that you would not be interested in her panties. That’s why you send your questions to the girl, to find out for sure if you want to spend your hard earned money and share a fantasy with her.

Ok, she doesn’t provide a service that you feel is key and she lacks in customer service skills. Be a smart shopper and move on to another girl and keep moving until you find a girl you’re comfortable with. Then buy and enjoy! That’s how you buy imtimate items on the internet.

Trust me, I’m not trying to be a smart ass or belittle you in any way. The key to being happy when buying intimate items is to trust your seller. Don’t rush and search around for a girl that you’re comfortable with. There are many out there so when you find the right one, you may end up as a regular customer and not have to look around any more.

Good luck! And keep us posted about your search for the right girl! I hope your search is short and you are very happy with your first purchase.

B)

[risquekitten]

hi barksdale! 🙂

well based on your posts, if you did ask her about a possible verification photo after you had placed an order, she was pretty rude by sending you that email as a response.  It could just be that maybe she has had alot of people emailing her for freebie photos or whatever, so she’s more mean/strict when responding, but I don’t think she should have answered you back in the way that she did – especially if you had already placed an order with her.  But nothings free lol, so like some have said in this post, maybe if you had offered her extra money or something for a photo of that sort, she would not have been soo rude, who knows?
And of course, not all sellers do verification photos.  It is by choice to offer this type of picture, so maybe the seller from the site you named, just doesn’t do this sort of thing.

As for myself, I always include a printed glossy photo of me holding up a sign with my customer’s name on it with every order.  It doesn’t matter if its a direct order or an auction, I always include one.  I usually don’t even tell my buyers that they will receive it, I just let them find it by surprise when they open up their package hehe 😉

I would not do freebie verification pics, I have done them before but have never had my time wasted from them (the guys really did end up buying from me), however, it is time consuming and I can’t always just drop what I am doing and make up a sign and setup and pose for the camera just to take one pic to prove that I am real.  I would hope that with the pics and things I have in the auctions and my me page on Ebanned and my responses to emails I receive, that all of these will already prove how real I am lol.

[Cindy_PantyParadise]

At the end of the day sellers have their own reasons for doing or not doing pics, signs or whatever – we are only human and most do have busy lives and full time jobs. 

The honest ones are not afraid to admit to that and Im sure they find other ways to prove they are genuine – even if its a little bit of communication or banter with the potential buyer through emails – its fun to get to know my clients before they buy and Im sure they feel the same way – pictures or not.

Just remember that trust and respect works both ways!

Love Cinds

[barksdale]

thanks again everyone, i appreciate the info..panty trust is a godsend..i just reposted yesturday to clear up the fact that i did not want free pictures, just included with my order,i even offered to pay her extra for the pic,all is well, i have found oodles of sellers that do just that..the bottom line is..i really wanted hers…oh well..i will live without them..and with someone elses…THE END..LOL

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