Hi there,
Better late than never, a married man weighs in. Whether my remarks will be enlightening, or just confusing, remains to be seen…
Some background first: I met my wife sixteen years ago. One unusual thing about us is our age difference. I’m forty, and my wife is in her middle-fifties. She has been dealing with menopause for several years now. I discovered the world of used panties about seven years ago.
As it turns out, my wife’s panties have never been the most fragrant that I have encountered. However, they have grown weaker and weaker over the years. Why did this happen? I can think of several possible reasons.
The first reason has nothing to do with me. I speculate that hormone replacement therapy might have an effect on her fragrance. But the medications help her sleep through the night without hot flashes.
The other two reasons, unfortunately, possibly DO have something to do with me.
First, she went through a phase several years ago when she got a string of urinary tract infections. Even though we became scrupulous about washing ourselves when having sex, she would still get sick. Even though the infections went away for good years ago, she continues to be obsessed with washing.
Second: I told my wife that I loved the way that she smelled “down there,” and that I had discovered that I could find that heavenly smell in her used laundry. (The panties of other ladies were carefully excluded from this discussion…)
Well, she doesn’t like her own smell. So my remarks encouraged her to wash even more, and to change her underwear sometimes twice a day — just the opposite of what I would have hoped! 🙁
So, do younger ladies have a stronger smell? In my experience, with the one woman who has been in my life for eighteen years, the answer is yes. But as you can see, the situation isn’t completely “natural” and undisturbed. She isn’t leading the same life that she led when I met her. So maybe it isn’t fair to compare who she is now to who she was then.
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