Hi and welcome. For a start liking used panties does not make you a pervert at all – everybody likes something. I think you will really like this forum. Ever thought of getting a po box to have the panties delivered to or a safe address so your wife cannot find them?
You could always say they came through the post but it was a wrong addres so they were meant for someone else and you just never got round to putting them in the trash.
Anyway hear me whittling on lol
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